Monday, November 23, 2020

Poem: Real Men Are Strong Enough To Not Hit Their Wives

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 A real man never hits a woman; he's strong enough
To control his temper and triumph over his nafs.
He's a man who doesn't gossip nor girlishly slap,
And his ability to be patient proves he's tough.
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Real men respect the rights of their wives and won't neglect
Their women's needs. These warriors aim to pass Allah's tests
By doing their best to sustain a blessed marriage
And adjusting themselves so their wives don't stay upset.
~•~
A good husband doesn't show preference to his friends,
Chilling with them and leaving his wife with impatience.
If ever he returns late or some days he's absent,
He grants his wife explanation and compensation.
~•~
Most women are easily provoked and sensitive,
While most men are detached, proud and argumentative.
To be from the elite men whose marriages are blessed,
Be gentle, as Eve was created from Adam's rib.
~•~
A guy's manliness only increases every time
He decides not to harm women, specially his wives.
His strength is also shown in overcoming his pride.
Allah's Love for him inspires him to treat women right.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “I enjoin you to treat women well, for the woman was created from a rib and the most curved part of the rib is its highest point. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it as it is, it will remain bent. Thus, I enjoin you to be good to women.”
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3153
Sahih Muslim 1468
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: "The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam did not strike a servant nor a woman, and he never struck anything with his hand, unless he was fighting in the Way of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala)."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2328
Grade: Sahih
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.”
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi