Friday, December 18, 2020

Poem: Be Grateful To Allah And Avoid Social Comparison

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Why be jealous of someone who displays confidence, 

When Allah the Almighty is the One Who grants strength?

Beneath their charisma are resilience from moments 

That scared them, embarrassment, insults and rejection, 

And efforts in researching helpful information.

~•~

Why resent a person's commercial accomplishments, 

Assuming they don't deserve the income that they earn?

The wealth they spend are from the tests which Allah gave them.

Their success in business is what Allah has destined, 

Through trust in Allah, through Du'as, hope and persistence.

~•~

Why envy those whom Allah granted many children?

The process of having kids isn't an easy thing.

Why begrudge a wife who demonstrates her affection 

To her husband often when that's her way of coping 

With polygyny's trials and her soulmate's absence?

~•~

Why question or suspect another Muslim's talents, 

When the gifts they utilize are by Allah given, 

Their skills are enhanced through regular application, 

Lessened hours of sleep to learn with enthusiasm, 

And patience when they deal with scorn or criticism.

~•~

Why envy other humans filled with imperfections, 

Worries, insecurities and tons of shortcomings?

Don't undermine yourself through social comparison.

Be happy for others. Be grateful for your blessings.

Accept Allah's Qadr patiently, as a Muslim.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There is no envy but in two cases: A man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it rightly, and a man whom Allah has given wisdom and he judges and teaches with it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 73

Sahih Muslim 816

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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