Friday, December 25, 2020

Poem: An Open Letter To Ex-Friends And Those I'm Not Close To Anymore

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 An open letter to those whom I thought I could trust, 

Whom I thought were potential friends and now we've lost touch 

Due to misunderstandings that caused us to detach,

Or one of us thought the other wasn't "good enough":

~•~

Do I miss you? To be honest, no, and that's a fact.

I feel more free now that we're no longer in contact,

Freed from the worries of witnessing your misconduct, 

Your disrespect, your huge pride, your unrequited "love".

~•~

I thought you could be a friend, but you wouldn't give that - 

Assurance that you're someone whom I can fully trust, 

Who isn't manipulative, selfish, jealous much, 

Insecure or low-key envious of what I have.

~•~

You're not an enemy. This is not a long-term grudge.

My distance and avoidance are meant to protect us, 

From swapping rumors and gossiping like it's a drug

To concealing truths, faking and wearing two-faced masks.

~•~

Learn from the past and remember Allah is our Judge.

My choice to disconnect doesn't signal your soul's loss.

As strangers I believe we're safer and better off.

Let's strive to earn Jannah where shaytan can't divide us.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani