💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 New lessons learned in marriage and tips to stay in love:
No matter where your husband goes and how far apart
You are from each other at times, you remain in touch
Through each other's frequent thoughts, dreams and loving Du'as.
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Not seeing him as often as you'd want can be hard,
But recalling the rewards of patience keeps you tough,
And living as your husband's loyal wife is enough
To keep you contented. You're not with those who give up.
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I've learned that when you love Allah more than your husband,
You can deal with your soulmate's absence with sweet patience,
Disappointments and frustrations can't make you question
Your marriage. Instead, they inspire you to keep going.
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By loving Allah much more than your spouse, I admit
That it's no fun to feel distressed when your man is missed,
But you go on loving him despite feeling upset,
Because loving him for Allah still brings happiness.
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So your marriage lasts forever, with Allah's Mercy:
Love him just for Allah. Refuse to quit easily.
Cherish good times and pray for each other frequently.
Rewind memorable moments. Love him faithfully.
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Love your man not for his looks, job title or money,
But love him for Allah, like from the start you agreed
To accept him as your other half in life's journey,
Traveling together to deserve Jannah's entry.
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To stay in love: Remember all his best qualities,
Such as "caring", "huggable", "hardworking" and "funny".
Teach him about Islam, together try to succeed
In not letting shaytan smile with your disunity.
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📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyadh As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286