💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five signs someone with an INTJ personality type regards you as an acquaintance and they are uninterested in getting to know you in a more personal level:
1] While they are aware of your presence, notice you often on social media, or acknowledge that you're neighbors, they don't bother visiting, checking your posts or initiating deep conversations.
2] If you're in a meeting or conference and you ask a question, they make no effort to turn around, and feel more comfortable avoiding or minimizing eye contact with you. This doesn't mean they're being arrogant or concealing attraction, but there are other more important tasks which they're trying to focus on.
3] Dialogues with them are significantly brief, interactions feel mostly forced or unnatural, and they're incapable of being talkative around you. If they're unwilling to describe their actual mood or go into details about how their day went, you're just an acquaintance to them, not a close friend.
4] They give you permission to keep making the same mistakes, show no interest in correcting your repetitive errors, and when you do something wrong, instead of pointing it out, they seem oblivious or indifferent.
5] If they regard you as an acquaintance, not a friend or loved one, they find it difficult to laugh at your jokes. A straight face, confused stare or hesitant smile is usually an INTJ's reaction to strangers trying to joke around.
🌻 Five signs of being friends with an INTJ personality type:
1] At least once every two months or so, they take initiative to converse with you online and offline. Asking about your well-being and offering their assistance if you need anything are some obvious signs that an INTJ cares about you, even if they do those on very rare occasions.
2] If you're speaking or having a dialogue, they tend to gaze at you more frequently and intently than when they're interacting with somebody who isn't closely connected to them.
3] INTJs asking you a lot of questions about yourself, making themselves emotionally available, and purposely prolonging your chat conversations are indicators that they genuinely enjoy your company.
4] They strike a balance between being tolerant with your flaws and striving to help you become a better version of yourself. The more special you are to an INTJ, the more frequent they'd advise you, without giving up on you too easily.
5] If you're friends with them, they try their best to protect you from feeling bad about yourself. So if you attempt to make others laugh, they readily display appreciation or compliment on your joke even if they didn't find it funny.
INTJs treating people differently, based on their level of familiarity, is their way of being authentic, fair and efficient with themselves and the individuals they meet.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Al-Ahwas narrated: Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "Remember Allah the Almighty often. You must not accompany anyone unless they help you remember Allah the Almighty."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 8998
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”
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