Tips: Ways To Purify One's Nafs

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Some of the ways that lead to purification of one's nafs:

1) Maintaining Tawheed and steadfast belief in Allah's Oneness. Avoiding shirk, bid'ah and anything that leads to polytheism. Avoid both major and minor shirk like riyaa, intentionally doing righteous deeds to show off.

2) Saying Du'a regularly.

3) Sincerely reading from the Noble Qur'an frequently, understanding Allah's Message and striving to implement what one learns.

4) Adhering to, following and loving the Sunnah of the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam.

5) Cleansing one's heart from evil desires and negative qualities such as jealousy, dissatisfaction with Allah's Qadr/Destiny, and being excessively attached to people. 

Doing Tawbah and trying one's best to stay away from sins and haraam actions. 

Striving to control one's nafs while doing good deeds for Allah's sake with Ikhlaas/sincerity.

Beautifying one's heart with noble and dignified traits like humility, sincerity and having positive thoughts of other Muslims.

6) Closing all the pathways which lead to distancing oneself from purifying one's nafs. Shunning distractions, obstacles and fitna.

7) Constantly remembering death and preparing oneself to meet Allah the Almighty by doing the good deeds that Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala loves.

8) Carefully choosing one's close friends and befriending only the pious true Muslims who strive to be closer to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

9) Detaching oneself from self-amazement and acting as though one is flawless or more superior to others.

Understand that guidance only comes from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Who guides whom He Wills and Who knows who are the truly guided believers.

10) Self-awareness. Being aware of one's weaknesses, limitations, needs, inclinations, strengths, potentials and reality. The more you familiarize yourself with your enemies and their intentions, the easier you can defeat them. Likewise the more you know your nafs, the more you can practice self-control and self-discipline.

📜 Islamic lecture on "purifying the nafs" by sheikh AbdurRazzaaq AlBadr:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2JAy4233cn0

📜 "Qualities of Allah's servants who strive to be near Him" Islamic talk by sheikh AbdurRazzaaq AlBadr:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dlcQBLMzMQw

Hadith: Virtues Of Raising Righteous Muslim Children

 📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When the human being dies, his deeds end except for three: Ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge (which he shared with others and left behind), or a righteous child who prays for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1631

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, among the good deeds that will join a believer after his death are these: Knowledge which he taught and spread, a righteous child he leaves behind, a copy of the Qur'an he leaves for inheritance, a mosque/Masjid he has built, a house he built for travelers, a well he has dug, and charity distributed from his wealth while he was alive and well. These deeds will follow him even after his death."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 242

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah the Almighty will raise the status of His righteous servants in Paradise and they will say: 'O Allah, what is this?' Allah will say: 'This is due to your child seeking forgiveness for you.'"

Source: Musnad Ahmed 10232

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

Poem: Go For Allah's Love And Mercy, Not His Servants' Approval.

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Ever went to buffet restaurants and realized 

Not all of the dishes displayed were ones that you like?

You had to carefully choose which foods brought you delight 

And ignore edibles that seemed weird though they looked nice.

~•~

Also in life. By everyone we cannot be liked.

Our good traits and wow factors may frighten certain types.

Some assume we're "insincere" while we're just being kind,

And others guess we're up to something each time we smile.

~•~

The language your soul speaks is readily recognized 

By souls whom Allah destined to appear in your life.

So if you're special and more complex, don't be surprised

If most people mistrust you or misconstrue your vibes.

~•~

Prophet Noah, may peace be upon him, he survived

With only a few supporters throughout his lifetime.

Our worth is never measured by how much we're well-liked,

But how much we want to be from those whom Allah guides.

~•~

Hence do not doubt your value when haters criticize,

When the jealous try to trump you with terrible lies,

When you feel ignored, or when you see trolls roll their eyes.

They're either insecure, scared of you, or sad inside.

~•~

Stay kind-hearted for Allah. Speak the truth, it's your right.

Don't undermine yourself because numbers fear your light.

Shine like the sun keeps shining even when criticized,

And when some peeps leave your circle, you're still strong and fine.

~•~

Maintain inner strength by trusting Allah day and night,

Aware we require Allah's Love, not His servants' likes.

When strangers or ex-friends insist on saying good-bye,

Let them go. As long as we have Allah, we're alright.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109, Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, "When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil."

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638