Poem: How To Move On From Broken Friendships

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Don't cling to people; you're not a monkey, they're not trees.

Some "friendships" ending are part of what Allah decrees.

They teach us not to trust humans, they're temporary, 

And we're trained to have more patience when they disappear.

~•~

Why weep over ex-friends? Life doesn't depend on them.

They don't pay rent, they don't breastfeed nor grant nourishment, 

And from what they did best were abusing your feelings, 

Gossiping, lying, and envying your achievements.

~•~

When you're no longer in touch, it's fine to shed some tears, 

But don't hate yourself for journeys that Allah decreed.

Note: You're no monkey nor koala, and they're not trees.

Some souls are like dark clouds; life gets brighter once they leave.

~•~

Wave goodbye to their late replies, mean indifference, 

Adios and annyeong to their unpleasant influence, 

Imagined tarpaulin with the word "Farewell" written 

To walk away from nonsense with determination.

~•~

Listen, you're not arrogant by choosing to detach 

From those who disturb you, distance you from Allah's Love, 

And who can't like you back. Forgive them. Move on. Stay tough. 

For years we survived without them. Allah is Enough.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Tips To Deal With Unlawful "Love" And Crushes

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 It's not a crime to fall in love with certain people,

As emotions can't always be put under control.

What's wrong is acting upon feelings that are doubtful,

Not lowering your gaze, staring at attractive souls,

Flirting often until passion becomes physical.

~•~

How do crushes happen? Not all are explainable,

But developing a crush with time is possible.

The more you find that special someone relatable,

Or the more you discover how they're desirable,

The more your heart feels vibes that are uncomfortable...

~•~

Unwelcoming for a soul that knows it's unlawful,

To have fantasies in a way that is immoral

With the one whom you consider irresistible.

While it's okay to admire them, keep it minimal,

And don't act upon how you feel, to avoid trouble.

~•~

That Allah is testing you with love it's possible.

Allah wants to test if you can stay chaste and faithful.

With Taqwa and firm Imaan you can pass this trial.

Don't sacrifice Jannah for joys that are temporal.

Frequent thoughts of death defeat desires that are evil.

~•~

When you're "in love" with some, think "maybe it's hormonal."

Or it's shaytan enticing you to be more sinful,

To imagine doing what's unimaginable

With multiple crushes who are beyond 'likable'.

When one-sided, this type of "love" can be too hurtful.

~•~

With trust in Allah, strive to have your feelings controlled.

Your list of "secret crushes" don't let anyone know,

Because even close friends may someday have them exposed.

You're one tough fighter as you battle against your soul,

Ensuring your body doesn't do what's not halal.

~•~

To shield yourself from fitna, don't go where your crush goes.

If you have to work with them, don't make your convos long.

Though it's hard to deny your attraction and withhold,

Recall Allah's Love is more important than this world.

Don't let crushes distract you from Jannah your main goal.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for their bad thoughts within themselves as long as they do not speak of them nor act upon them."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287

Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Guarantee six deeds from me and I assure your acceptance into Paradise. When one of you speaks, let him not lie. When one of you promises, let him not break it. When one of you is trusted, let him not betray it. Lower your gaze, restrain your hands from harming others, and guard your chastity."

Source: Musnad Abī Ya’lá 4195

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: Rewards Of Giving Advice, Helping And Sharing Islamic Knowledge For Allah's Sake

📖 Abu Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever guides someone to goodness will have a reward like the one who did it."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1893

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 'Uthman RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of you are those who learn the Qur'an and teach it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 4739

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Everything seeks forgiveness for the teacher of virtue, even the fish in the sea."

Source: Musnad Al-Bazzār 169

Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of what a man leaves behind are three: A righteous child who supplicates for him, ongoing charity the reward of which reaches him, and beneficial knowledge that is acted upon after him."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 237

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When the human being dies, (the rewards of) his deeds come to an end except for three: Ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1631

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Mu’adh ibn Anas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever imparts knowledge will have the reward of whoever acted upon it, without detracting from the reward of the one who performed the good deed."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 240

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Convey from me, even a single verse. Narrate from the children of Israel, for there is no blame in it. Whoever deliberately lies about me, let him take his seat in Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3274

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari