Sunday, February 14, 2021

Poem: Friendship With INTJs - What Are INTJ Friends Like?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 What kind of friend would an INTJ Muslim make?
How do INTJ friends generally behave?
What are their habits when they love you for Allah's sake?
People whose MBTI type is INTJ 
Are strictly selective with who they associate.
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Since they're fine with solitude, they don't investigate 
And desperately search for friends with similar traits.
Nonetheless, if they've found in you quirks they can relate 
To, while your authenticity you kindly display, 
They'll reach out, initiate talks and reciprocate.
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Gossiping, bullying, discussing people's mistakes, 
Narrating lies and rumors are nonsense that they hate.
Tease them sometimes? They'll forgive. But if you irritate 
Them purposely, they'll sense you're toxic and walk away 
Gladly, to preserve their well-being, morals and faith.
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To share frank opinions and feedback they're unafraid. 
Quick to defend you when some try to humiliate 
Or besmirch your name, they won't cowardly hesitate 
To back you up with comebacks against bullies untamed.
Though they avoid conflict, they're not fearful of debates.
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INTJ friends are willing to cooperate 
With you if your projects aren't logically debased.
Human flaws and innocent faults they can tolerate.
What they can't stand is when someone's dishonest and fake, 
Pretending to like them just to attain selfish gains.
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To maintain friendship with those who are INTJ:
You'll need profound patience when their replies are delayed.
Don't feel distressed if at your jokes they can't laugh always, 
If they harshly critique so your skills you can upgrade, 
And if they're not touchy-feely - let them instigate.
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To annoy and disconnect from an INTJ: 
Rudely roll your eyes when there's something they want to say. 
Doubt their intention, gossip, childishly misbehave, 
Call them "arrogant", proudly repeat your epic fails, 
And betray them - Do those? They'll dump you without dismay.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
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