💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 If you're a wife who's been married for at least a year now, you may have noticed that your husband occasionally shows he doesn't 24/7 make you his top priority. Because of his human flaws and personal necessities, sometimes he behaves like a gigantic baby when he prefers to sleep all day instead of going out with you on a memorable date, or his concentration on the latest news seems a lot more focused than when he chats with you, or he seems more in love with playing games or sports like basketball than spending romantic moments beside you exchanging hugs and sweet cuddles. Other times you wonder if you're the one he married or he technically proposed to his office, car or electronic gadgets a long time ago. AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem. As a Muslim wife Alhamdulillah who loves your husband for Allah's sake, the man whom Allah the Most Wise chose to be your other half because He knows that there are many similarities between you and your spouse along with all the shared experiences to which you both relate, you must expect that not everything in marriage life can go perfectly always. When situations get tough and blood temperatures often raise, one of you should be strong enough to stay patient and from needless drama walk away. After talking out your concerns and marital problems to Allah the Almighty, embrace patience for Allah and gain plenty of rewards by honoring your significant other with unconditional love fortified by steadfast loyalty. The rewards of the patient believers are never wasted. Never give up loving your husband for his inability to watch over you every second nor disconnect a blissful union because of a temporary problem. At all times rely on Allah the Most Wise. Remain as your husband's faithful wife not because you're weak and submissive, but because you're a strongly determined Muslimah who can fight off your selfish desires (without overlooking your own rights) and you believe that the ephemeral joys of this world can never be compared to the eternal bliss of Jannah Paradise.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
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