💌 Five signs your man's your soulmate, and Allah knows better,
Signs that you married your soulmate and he's the answer
To your prayers back when you were single and younger,
That your husband's Allah's gift and part of your Qadr:
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One: You love him for Allah, not for worldly matters,
And loving him for Allah helps you become wiser
As a Muslimah who thrives with Sabr and Shukr.
To you this bond is sublime, more solid than paper.
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Two: Despite distance due to work, love still grows stronger,
And in spite of some disputes, you forgive each other.
Distractions and obstacles just make your love deeper,
Not just your man's lover but for his love a fighter.
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Three: Although at times you feel attracted to others,
You stay as your husband's loyal wife, friend and partner.
Seeing other couples can't make you feel inferior;
They inspire you to love your soulmate even harder.
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Four: You're used to each other's scent and body odor.
He can't disgust you and his farts sound even sweeter
And funner than drumrolls, thunder and sparrows' twitters.
Even more pleasant than his snores is his cute laughter.
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Five: You're with him till his soul moves to the Hereafter.
You can never imagine marrying another
For as long as he's your other half, you're together,
And you'll keep loving him in all seasons and weather.
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Firmly you believe that your spouse is Allah's answer
To your prayers back when you were single and younger.
You know your man's your soulmate and part of your Qadr
When staying married to him helps you become better.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim