💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Seven behavioral signs of immature "adults",
Who act like naughty kids, aren't conscious of their words,
Like young bullies who laugh when others fail or get hurt,
They're grown-ups yet they don't behave like proper adults:
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One: They lack self-control. They speak all that comes to mind.
They loudly rant, whine, and diss anyone they dislike,
Backbite online and offline, proud of not being nice.
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Two: They're passive-aggressive, can't handle conflict well.
When mad at you, they slam doors in dramatic turmoil,
Mimic your voice, ignore your text messages or calls,
And give the silent treatment yet giggle when you fall.
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Three: Like spoiled children who can't share their toys, they're selfish.
Though they're rich or can drive, they won't provide rides unless
They like you or assisting you brings them some profit.
Adjectives that don't suit them: "helpful", "kind", "generous".
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Four: They feel entitled without justification,
Demand people to treat them like they're so important,
Expect freebies and gifts as if they are deserving
Of your love. You give, they take. You share, they keep taking.
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Five: Like little boys who show off with "look at our bikes"
Or small girls who brag saying "we have more dolls and kites",
They post status updates and photos not to inspire
But to flaunt linguistic skills or luxurious lifestyles.
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Six: They can't take responsibility for their wrongs.
When you're no longer friends, they'll complain, "It's all your fault!",
When they've made a mistake, they'll blame, "You're the one who's wrong!"
And when you try to fix things, they'll wail, "Get lost! Be gone!"
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Seven: They're awful listeners, like kids who ramble
And enjoy lecturing the most at dining tables.
Too busy to hear them? They'll feel oh so terrible.
Then when it's your turn to talk, they're unavailable.
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Mature adults or those who don't want to seem shameful
Aim to improve themselves, make efforts to help people,
Attempt to understand others, know they're fallible,
And for Allah's sake they strive to maintain good morals.
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📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
📖 Abdullah bin Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hands the Muslims are safe."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 10
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
📖 Abu Bakrah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said in the farewell sermon, "Verily, your lives, your property, and your honor (your reputation) have been made sacred to you, just as the sanctity of this day of yours, in this month of yours. Will not the witness from among you inform the absent?"
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 105, Sahih Muslim 1679
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Nu’aym reported: Fudayl ibn ‘Iyad, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If you mix with people, mix with those who have good character; it only invites to good. Do not mix with those who have bad character, for it only invites to evil.”
Source: Ḥilyat Al-Awliyā’ 11728
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