Thursday, April 29, 2021

Poem: Some Tips To Cope With Being Despised By Some People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Some souls are like the sneeze; when they leave, we thank Allah, 
For shielding us from their bad vibes that invite fitna, 
From their frequent lies, fakery, gheeba, nameema, 
And their disinterest in striving towards Jannah. 
Like parasites, they bring nothing but stress and mishaps.
~•~
Some are like chewing gum, with flavor that can't last long. 
Temporary, good for seasons that can't be prolonged, 
Brief friendships often occur when one person is prone 
To jealousy, feeling insecure, threatened or bored, 
And proud refusal to forgive a non-robot's wrongs.
~•~
The likeness of certain users who choose to unfriend, 
Block your account, or depart from group chats you attend, 
Is that of dead cells which snakes shed to renew their skins,
Or dry leaves which fall from trees when they're shoved by strong winds.
No difference can be spotted, with or without them.
~•~
Tips to cope better with those whose goals conflict with yours: 
Focus on loving Allah, and love Allah the most. 
Recall Prophet Nuh ('alaihis salaam) and how not many showed support. 
By knowing Allah is with us, we won't feel alone. 
Solitude is sweeter than rapport which makes life worse. 
~•~
People in general click with those they relate to. 
Thus, if you're unique or stand out, close friends may be few. 
And that's perfectly fine, when you have Allah with you. 
In the end, what join us when we die are deeds we do, 
Not our fam, not our fans nor VIPs we once knew.
~•~
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Three things follow a deceased person (to the person's grave). Two of them return and one remains. His family, his wealth, and his deeds follow him. His family and wealth return, but his deeds remain (with the dead in their graves)."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6149 
Sahih Muslim 2960
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109 
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
Al-Nawawi said, "When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil."
Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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