💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Smart ways to deal with three types of insecure people -
Ghosters who ignore your messages as they're fearful
Of connecting or they're deficient in good morals,
Strangers who treat you in a way that's disrespectful,
And haters who assemble newbies to their circle:
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With those who cowardly leave your messages on seen,
Who purposely dismiss your questions and disappear:
Deem them untrustworthy and dead. Don't poke the deceased.
Unfollow them fully. Don't chase like Tom with Jerry.
Accept that's the end of their role in your life story.
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More than thousands on earth can replace them, don't worry.
They're not worth your worries, self-doubt and anxiety,
Specially if they lack good character immensely
Or they're guilty of understandable jealousy.
Thank Allah for shielding you from their toxicity.
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With the ignoble whose actions are deplorable,
Who return your salaams with silence, your smiles with scowls,
And who try to upset you whenever you're around,
Pity them. Their self-hatred is proven and profound.
Their hurt ego is why their ugly conduct comes out.
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When mistreated by the sadly rude and impolite,
Remain firm for Allah's sake and patiently stay kind.
Don't let their disturbed selves diminish your inner light.
Rather sympathize. Realize their sad life is why
They can't carry themselves in a way that's civilized.
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Their lousy behavior isn't an open invite
To duplicate their foul upbringing and hateful style.
Mean trolls and troublemakers we meet once in a while
Remind us to thank Allah we're not troubled inside.
Their rudeness inspires us to despise being unkind.
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With critics who overact due to their injured pride
Or spiteful rivals who search for fans to take their side,
Feel sorry for them too. Their efforts they utilize
Wrongly in misdeeds that displease Allah the Most Wise.
Through their wrongs they earn your sins. They're blessings in disguise.
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While you can't control how people view and describe you,
And you can't always stop them from being immature,
How long you pay attention to their lies you can choose,
And to drop to their level you've the choice to refuse.
Prove you're better in manners, and they're the ones who lose.
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Allah's Prophets ('alaihim as-salaam) also had haters without a doubt,
From the disbelievers, hypocrites and grossly proud.
So when Allah tests your faith with an ill-mannered crowd,
Level up your patience, forgo reactions unsound,
And keep a sound heart that deserves Jannatul Ferdaus.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone, do so." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, that is my Sunnah. Whoever revives my Sunnah has loved me, and whoever loves me will be with me in Paradise."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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