Monday, May 31, 2021

Poem: Dismiss shaytan's Whispers As He Tries To Disrupt Your Marriage

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Because Allah is the One Who destined your marriage, 
And your soulmate was by Allah wisely selected, 
shaytan the accursed will try his best to destroy it - 
That beautiful connection Allah planned and witnessed. 
Whatever Allah makes - shaytan attempts to damage.
~•~
Constantly comparing your man to your friends' husbands, 
Admiring the looks of male celebs and non-mahrams, 
Wishing that your husband was slightly more good-looking, 
Receiving his late messages with disappointment, 
And counting his faults are from shaytan's foul suggestions.
~•~
You wouldn't complain easily if you're contented, 
Satisfied with your soulmate whom Allah appointed. 
You wouldn't whine about your guy not being perfect, 
If you're wise enough to know you're likewise imperfect.
Your true love for Allah's sake helps you forgive defects.
~•~
Complaining about your husband's job or low income, 
Disdaining how his distance decreased your attraction, 
Disliking how his female colleagues, clients, patients, 
Students or customers get more of his attention, 
And recalling his flaws are from shaytan's deceptions.
~•~
The demon wants you to think, "Dang, this man is useless. 
With him working away from me, I don't feel married." 
When you can drop your ego, pray for your man's success, 
Support him with fierce loyalty, patience and courage, 
Preferring Jannah where you can perfectly connect.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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