💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Three signs that indicate your marriage is a blessing,
That your bond is a gift from Allah the Most Loving,
That choosing to stay married is the right decision,
That your man is not a mistake, and you are thriving
As a loyal wife and friend to your destined husband:
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One: Despite the miles between you when he is working,
In spite of his frequent absence or some arguments,
And though he's not as romantic as your friends' husbands,
You persist in loving him with relentless patience,
Loving him for Allah since the very beginning.
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Two: Although for certain souls you sense brief attraction,
Or there are occasions when your nafs feels like cheating,
You remain loyal for Allah's sake with persistence,
Content with your spouse whom Allah has wisely chosen,
Specially when having him inspires you to strengthen.
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Three: Divorce, to you, is appalling and revolting,
A wimpy move that shows one's love wasn't genuine.
Each time you and your other half encounter problems,
You're willing to solve them, you're guided to be patient,
And you know that marital tests aren't permanent.
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Your husband's wealth, job or fam isn't why you keep him.
Loving him for Allah's sake keeps your love long-lasting.
You want him in Jannah, don't want to see him losing,
And you'll do what you can to ensure you're both winning
Allah's Love through this marriage - both a test and blessing.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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