💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Briefly describing my man's personality type,
To portray what most ESFJ husbands are like,
So if in your fam there are some ESFJ guys,
You can appreciate the good they offer sometimes,
And with their quirks, likes and dislikes, you can sympathize:
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Overall my husband is hardworking, organized,
Respectful to his colleagues, to children very kind,
Sympathetic to his patients, with strangers polite,
Chatty when he feels like talking, playful oftentimes,
Observant, ambitious, can take the lead when he likes.
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Many times with his cars he's given others free rides.
From his travels whenever my husband would arrive,
He'd bring some gifts and souvenirs, or at least he'd try,
And if he couldn't buy something, he'd apologize
And make amends for shortcomings at a later time.
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As an extrovert, my husband loves to socialize,
Attend gatherings if he isn't busy or tired,
Joke around with loved ones to share some laughter and smiles,
Chat with the elderly so life lessons are acquired,
And as a parent he's lenient, forbearing and mild.
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Recalling a lot from the past since he was a child,
He's the type to cherish sweet moments and who'd remind
You about significant dates and tasks when required.
ESFJs are sensitive, so don't be surprised
If they shed tears or overreact once in a while.
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To get along fine with ESFJs in your life:
Listen to them when they speak, yet lovingly advise
Them to switch topics when they've got the urge to backbite.
Strive to fulfill promises, as they really hate lies.
Friendly gestures they show you - value and recognize.
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When they attempt to tell jokes, pretend to laugh or smile,
So long as their statements don't offend a Muslim's rights.
From the signs an ESFJ cares: Giving advice,
Sharing food with you, buying items they hope you'd like,
And patiently tolerating your flaws or weird side.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
💚 Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'a.
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https://personalitygrowth.com/a-better-understanding-of-the-esfj-male/
https://www.crystalknows.com/personality-type/relationship/intj-esfj