Friday, June 18, 2021

Poem: The Mindset Of A Loyal And Patient Wife When Her Husband Can't Always Be Around

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 How the mindset of a brave and patient wife should be, 
When she loves her husband for Allah wholeheartedly, 
As she deals with her husband's absence so frequently, 
With him assigned in another city or country, 
Or she's one of his many wives, in polygyny: 
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"I testify I agreed to this marriage purely 
For Allah, to raise a righteous Muslim family, 
To attain means that lead to more of Allah's Mercy, 
To preserve modesty, and help my soulmate achieve 
Entry to Jannah Paradise, bringing him with me.
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I admit that in marriage there'll be difficulties. 
From the trials encountered is inability 
To spend quality time with one's hubby constantly, 
No matter how much you wish that you could always see 
Each other, there comes a point when his needs interfere.
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Unlike most wives who are attached, clingy and whiney, 
I choose to cope with my husband's distance patiently. 
In that is inner strength, not emotionally weak, 
And I know that Allah watches over him every 
Second of each day and night, whilst he's up and asleep.
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The fact that my friend and I are married legally, 
That he's my husband while I'm his wife, suffices me. 
No need for constant convos to prove our bond is real, 
When Jannah's joys surpass this world that's temporary. 
I await Jannah where love can last eternally."
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📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most privileged people in the world among the people of the Hellfire will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in the Hellfire, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any good? Did you get any blessing?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord!' Then the most miserable people in the world among the people of Paradise will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in Paradise, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any hardship? Did you have any distress?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord! I did not once see hardship or distress.'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2807
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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