💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 One of the reasons behind somebody's enmity
And spite towards you despite not knowing you really,
Is the fact you're both different, your goals don't smoothly
Align with each other, and most of your qualities
Clash which makes it easy for them to loathe and mistreat.
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Perhaps they like to fit in with the majority,
They dread to look weird, and seek to please society,
While you strive to deserve the Love of Allah Only,
You don't fear standing out, you prefer to be unique,
And stick to your beliefs even if most disagree.
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Maybe your inner beauty informs them they're ugly
Inwardly if they carry unjust grudge or envy,
While your trust in Allah and strong personality
May remind them of their myriad insecurities.
Their antipathy can't make their character pretty.
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Probably your marriage, welcoming polygyny,
And patience trigger guilt or shame they didn't succeed
In some tasks previously, while your choice to patiently
Persist in loving your husband for Allah bravely
Offends them greatly, since they're weak emotionally.
~•~
Just as wolves and bears won't benefit from worms and bees,
And a lion's presence could disturb the peace of sheep,
We can't expect to get along with each soul we meet,
Specially if our haters' hate stems from jealousy
And countless differences lead to disharmony.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith (Imaan) and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Aslam Al-Habashi RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "Let not your love be infatuation and let not your hatred be destruction." It was said, "How is this?" Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "When you love someone, you become infatuated (obsessed) like a child. When you hate someone, you want destruction for your companion (sister or brother in Islam)."
Source: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1322
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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