💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Three things that most INTJ personality types are good at:
1] Quickly moving on and emotionally disconnecting from toxic individuals who can't bring any value to their future.
2] Ignoring anything that distracts them from their goals and willfully refusing to notice details which they consider insignificant.
3] Analyzing the pros and cons of different situations, determining a person's potential or motives behind certain actions (which is why most INTJs are seldom surprised when people disappoint them), and understanding the logical reasons to matters which not many understand, such as the virtues of polygyny and importance of steadfastness in marriage (such abilities come from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala only, not from oneself).
❎ Five things which many INTJ personality types can't do:
1] We can't feel "alone" or "lonely" at all when we're uninvited, excluded, rejected from a group conversation, assigned to carry out a task individually, or treated like social outcasts. Since we're one of the most independent of the introverts and we aren't clingy, solitude is something we gladly welcome, while sticking to one particular clique doesn't appeal to us really.
Quiet moments are chances for us to reflect, research, read, browse through useful information, and spend quality time with those who deserve our loyalty, especially one's spouse and family.
2] We can't cry over failed friendships nor feel hurt if somebody's acts signal they're unwilling to network with us. Since INTJs are intimidatingly selective regarding their choice of close friends, we have no problem in dismissing or walking away from those who fail to reciprocate our efforts or whose values don't align with ours.
3] We are incapable of quitting something which we truthfully value, despite insults, mockery, and frequent criticism from those who misunderstand us.
4] We can't pretend to be anybody's friend, if we genuinely don't find them interesting, relatable, or valuable. INTJs would never go out of their way to reach out or initiate any discussion with you if they sense you're somewhat fake, untrustworthy, or even the slightest bit envious of them.
5] We can't flawlessly deliver an impromptu speech in front of a large audience, particularly if we have to discuss a topic which we aren't familiar with. A lot of us would rather sit quietly and attentively listen to an eloquent speaker than be the lecturer on stage doing all the talking.
The more you understand yourself for Allah's sake and accept your unique personality traits, the less you become influenced by what people do or claim about you.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-choosiness-of-most-intjs-when-it.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-marital-things-you-can-relate-to.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/note-typical-qualities-of-intj-females.html
https://personalitygrowth.com/intj-type-a-how-the-intj-a-personality-behaves/
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