💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five clear-cut signs that you're still in love with your husband,
If you're a Muslim wife who deals with her man's distance
As your spouse works someplace else to earn halal income,
Or he studies overseas, or more than one woman
Are lawfully his wives hence you can't see him often:
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First sign - since you love him for Allah, you're not lying
About the fact you're fiercely loyal to your husband.
While other guys are richer than him, yours stays handsome,
Huggable to you and worthy of your affection.
He's a recipient of your loving supplications.
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Secondly, coping with his absence isn't tiring.
He may be gone for weeks or months, and you'd still love him.
Through practicing patience while waiting for his return,
You're trained to be more patient with what Allah destines.
Have Sabr for Allah so rewards from Him are earned.
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Thirdly, nearly every moment you're doing something,
Whether you're washing clothes, browsing online or cooking,
You find yourself missing your husband's calming presence,
Recalling his soothing hugs and gifts he had given,
And your choice to stay married becomes further strengthened.
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Fourthly, even if some relatives or concerned friends
Tried to convince you to request for separation,
You'd stubbornly refuse to welcome their suggestions.
Even if you were bribed to marry another man,
You'd act like lawyers defending innocent clients.
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Fifthly, you know your love is real and you're not acting
When his image appears in dreams and contemplations
A lot, and that proves you clearly have feelings for him.
Though your love language has no connection with presents
Or touch, you love him a lot, and you're not pretending.
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Just as good farmers can wait for seeds to start growing
And some birds can fly for days during bird migration,
Persevere for Allah. Stay in love with your husband
And look forward to a grand delightful reunion
In Jannah Paradise where bliss is everlasting.
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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyadh As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286
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