Monday, October 18, 2021

Poem: Some Advice On How To Be Your Husband's Loyal Wife

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 A few tips on how to be your husband's loyal wife, 
To ensure that he's the only soul whom your heart likes 
Romantically as you both journey to Paradise: 
Love your spouse truly for Allah. Don't allow your eyes 
To wander shamelessly, staring at guys left and right. 
~•~ 
Even around females be careful with how your sight 
Is utilized. Don't end up like females who admire 
Each other too much then succumb to sinful desires. 
And control how your eyesight is used so your love life 
Stays stable. Don't compare your romance to other wives'.
~•~ 
Take care of your conduct and communicating style. 
Watch how you speak and behave both online and offline. 
Don't let certain phrases and emoticons imply 
That you're flirting or trying to spoil your marriage life. 
Interact with manners, and pointless talks minimize. 
~•~
When being looked at by non-mahrams, divert your eyes 
From theirs to look at something else, at the ground or skies, 
Or walk away from where they are. Those watching nearby 
Mustn't inspire you to return their glances likewise. 
The more often you gaze, the more you get magnetized.
~•~
Remind yourself a lot that for Allah the Most Wise 
You love the man whom Allah chose, while you're satisfied 
With your spouse, grateful to remain as his loyal wife. 
Unlike lovers who search for fun to their left and right, 
Value loyalty - stay content with your marriage life.
~•~
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyadh As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286 
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