💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 What to expect when you've become your husband's first wife -
Advice to each Muslimah who sacrificed her pride
And let her man remarry although most can't deny
That polygyny isn't something all souls desire -
Keep loving for Allah's sake so this bond stays worthwhile:
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Expect to see your soulmate less, since he must divide
His time for each of his wives to ensure that his life
Is filled with blessings while he strives to fulfill their rights.
Since they're human beings, not all guys will do this right.
If your husband seems unfair, advise him and remind.
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If your allowance is reduced, please don't get surprised,
Specially if you're wed to a not so wealthy guy.
"If he's broke or indebted, then he's not qualified
To have more than one wife in the first place!" please, don't whine.
Be his faithful partner and stay patient by his side.
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Support him for Allah. Pray for your spouse day and night.
With Allah's Will, things can get better as days go by.
Expect frequent fights or tournaments with your co-wives,
Specially if they're jealous or insecure inside.
The winner isn't the most spoiled, but most patient wife.
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Expect that staying firm won't be as easy as pie,
Specially when shaytan won't quit tempting you with pride.
To thrive in polygyny: Have patience day and night.
Stay connected to Allah. Put selfishness aside.
Take your co-wives as friends and teammates to Paradise.
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📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyad As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286
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