Tuesday, February 9, 2021

Poem: Love Your Husband For Allah's Sake Regardless Of Wide Age Gap

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Our gap is about ten years but still I love him,
He's one of Allah's gifts to me - my inspiration.
In many ways we're different but we're both lessons,
I teach him our religion; he teaches me patience.
~•~
If a critic claims "you married a loser", I say,
"My husband lost himself in me; we're one to this day.
He's my soulmate I believe - love him for Allah's sake.
Our love is firmly fixed though to some it's not portrayed."
~•~
Let my husband commit mistakes - Like me, he's human.
Everlastingly you forgive when you love someone.
Though he's not the most ideal man nor very handsome,
Loving him makes me ignore all his imperfections.
~•~
The love I have for my man is strongly fierce yet tamed
So much so when I see couples put on PDA,
Instantly I recall my spouse and love escalates -
Loyalty embraces me as I long for my bae.
~•~
To Allah I pray that this marriage stays a blessing,
A journey my spouse and I take to reach Jannah's Gates,
With our love struggles to expiate our sins. Ameen.
When you love your spouse truly, they're worth the tears and wait.
~•~
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27

Poem: Some Signs Of Muslim Scholars And Speakers Whom We Can Learn From

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 If you were on a journey, in a land new to you, 
Searching for a specific place, who would you go to? 
The locals in that area, so you won't get confused?
They're familiar with the roads and may grant advice too.
Or first-time tourists who seem relatable and cool?
~•~
If you wished to learn how to drive, from who would you take 
Lessons? Driving instructors who ensure you'll stay safe, 
Who've been driving for years and their driving is okay?
Or those who taught themselves driving from digital games, 
And their driving style guarantees a ride that's unsafe?
~•~
When it comes to learning Islam, from whom can we learn? 
Self-proclaimed "scholars" who yearn for a large following? 
Who twist Islam's message, play with Islamic rulings, 
Who aim to trigger fitna through their talks and writings, 
And they promote bid'ah or make halal "forbidden"?
~•~
Some signs of Muslim speakers to whom we can listen: 
They're sincere to Allah, to themselves and all Muslims.
They love Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) and strive to revive his teachings. 
They hate bid'ah, don't do birthdays, oppose misguidance, 
And arrogantly doing takfeer doesn't suit them.
~•~
Since they want rewards from Allah and not from His slaves,
For delivering lectures they don't ask to be paid.
They do Da'wah with wisdom purely for Allah's sake, 
Not for fame nor to get involved in pointless debates.
Good manners, patience and trust in Allah they maintain.
~•~
Always they prefer what Allah and His Prophet (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) say 
To the quotes of sheikhs/shuyookh and what people restate.
Of the beard and Islamic clothes they're never ashamed.
Frequently they fast Sunnah fasts, pray Qiyaam Al-Layl, 
And their faith remains firm when critics besmirch their names.
~•~
As Muslims, they try their best to perfect their Tawheed, 
And to increase their Imaan they regularly seek
Authentic Islamic knowledge with sincerity.
When studying Islam, it's your right to be choosy.
Carefully follow those who lead to Jannah rightly.
~•~
📖 Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I have left you with two matters which will never lead you astray, as long as you hold on to them: The Book of Allah and the Sunnah of His Prophet (Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)."
Source: Al-Muwaṭṭa’ 1661
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ibn Abdul Barr
📖 Abu Najeeh Al-’Irbaad ibn Saariyah (RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam gave us a sermon by which our hearts were filled with fear and tears came to our eyes. So we said, “O Messenger of Allah! It is as though this is a farewell sermon, so advise us.” He (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, “I advise you to have Taqwa (fear) of Allah, and to listen and obey [your leader], even if a slave were to become your ameer (someone authorized to lead). Verily he among you who lives long will see great controversy, so you must stick to my Sunnah and to the Sunnah of the Khulafaa ar-Raashideen (the rightly guided caliphs), those who guide to the right way. Cling to it (the Sunnah) stubbornly [literally: with your molar teeth]. Beware of newly invented matters [in the religion], for verily every bid'ah (innovation) is misguidance.”
[Abu Dawud]
It was related by At-Tirmidhi, who said that it was a good and sound hadeeth.
Hadith 28 
40 Hadith An-Nawawi
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "What comes over my nation will surely be what came over the children of Israel, step by step until if one of them fornicated with his mother, one from my nation would do the same. Verily, the children of Israel split into seventy-two sects and my nation will split into seventy-three sects. All of them will be in Hellfire except for one sect." They said, “Who are they, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Those who follow my way and my companions."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2641
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani
https://abdurrahman.org/2013/07/08/hadith-of-irbaadh-ibn-saariyah-radiyallaahu-anhu-stick-to-my-sunnah-and-the-sunnah-of-the-rightly-guided-caliphs-abu-sufyaan-uthmaan-beecher-audioen/amp/
https://www.abukhadeejah.com/what-is-salafism-and-salafiyyah/