💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five ways to deal with people's rudeness and disrespect -
How to cope with species whose morals are pathetic,
Who mistreat you when their expectations aren't met,
Who act passive-aggressive when they're hurt or upset,
Or lack of ethics is their way to feel safeguarded:
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One: Know that there are others who've been disrespected,
Like Allah's Prophets, including Prophet Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)
Who often encountered harms from the polytheists
And hypocrites who want Muslims to be defeated.
When people's goals and traits clash, conflict is expected.
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Two: People's hatred may be from Allah's myriad tests,
To train patience, and for Sabr you'll be rewarded.
Three: Learn from them. Their misdeeds are to be avoided.
Don't bother copying their foul characteristics.
Be glad you're not the one morally poor and distressed.
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Four: Sympathize. Maybe they seem rude as they're jealous,
Stressed, or about basic manners uneducated.
Five: Reject the urge to duplicate their low tactics.
While they're mean and gossipy, you stay kind. Don't gossip.
Don't be an insecure troll who's full of bitterness.
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Respecting all doesn't require spoiling them with gifts
Or attention, but it's to ensure they're not oppressed.
Strive to treat others the way you'd want to be treated.
If you can't practice kindness, then at least don't oppress,
As a Muslim, not one of those badly brought up kids.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone, do so." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, that is my Sunnah. Whoever revives my Sunnah has loved me, and whoever loves me will be with me in Paradise."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When one of you arrives in a gathering, let him greet them with peace. When he intends to leave, let him depart with greetings of peace. The first greeting is not more worthy than the last."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 5208
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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