💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five signs of a toxic person playing hard to get,
Who disrespects your feelings, can never be trusted,
And who is emotionally manipulative,
Yet they desire to befriend you for the benefits
Found in your affection, if you fulfill their requests:
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First sign - Whenever they can, they'd try their very best
To appear friendly while making sure you're excluded.
In some events, they'd distribute gifts whilst you notice,
Greet a select few, as they'd ignore you on purpose,
And act like you're not there until you get them scolded.
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Second - They go out of their way to make it obvious
That they're reachable and online they can be addressed,
Yet when you reach out or attempt to send a message,
Their replies are delayed or they send vague responses,
And then ghost you. Your aches make them feel energetic.
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Third - When you talk to them, you sense your time is wasted,
As the convos don't flow, or all they do is gossip,
Or you can tell they're jealous, or they're inauthentic.
Fourth - It's true, they have a side that's kind and generous,
But only if you play along they'll seem supportive.
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Fifth - If they detect you outdoors, in public places,
They won't make the first move but wait to be confronted.
Feeling entitled, superior and narcissistic,
Toxic people like it when your life is chaotic,
And when you beg for their care, their pride gets inflated.
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How to deal with actors sent by Allah as a test,
So their bad vibes can't affect your overall progress:
Always trust Allah. With Allah's Love stay contented.
Understand Allah's slaves can't bring lasting happiness.
Forgive those who mistreated you. From fakes disconnect.
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Quit attempts to click with those who act like hypocrites,
Who disrespect your need for space, take you for granted,
Who often lie to your face and misapply kindness.
Staunch efforts to ditch stubborn liars and narcissists
Simplify shunning sins so our faith is safeguarded.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
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