💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Five ways that INTJ personality types and ISFPs are so different, which is why they usually clash with each other:
1] ISFPs generally enjoy living in the moment. They'd rather choose instant gratification or do something enjoyable at present than patiently wait for tangible results. INTJs are more focused on the future. They're willing to sacrifice comfort or current pleasures if doing so can benefit their long-term goals.
2] ISFPs in a group setting aren't readily cooperative unless the tasks which they've been assigned to do are considered favorable by them and agreeable to their values. Although most INTJs are not natural team players, they're receptive to cooperating as long as the other group members can prove they're trustworthy and they don't disrupt their efficiency or structure of working.
3] ISFPs can be very sensitive and get hurt easily. At the same time they can be revengeful if they believe that you treated them unfairly, according to their understanding and perception. INTJs are thick-skinned, indifferent to people's opinions about them, and not overly emotional. They see negative feedback, criticism, and insults as good opportunities for them to improve. INTJs would rather forgive and move on than waste their energy plotting revenge if trying to get even is irrational.
4] ISFPs typically dislike bossy individuals while they themselves shy away from taking leadership roles. INTJs will take the initiative to manage a group only if there's no reliable leader, and they'll enthusiastically comply with orders on condition that the instructions make logical sense to them.
5] A pleasant atmosphere for many ISFPs in a social gathering would include activities which allow them to creatively express themselves e.g. art, calligraphy, painting, flower arranging, spoken word poetry etc. INTJs would prefer small get-togethers with carefully selected friends or like-minded acquaintances with whom they can discuss ideas, tips or theories which they find intriguing.
🔹 You can Inn-sha-Allah get along harmoniously with any MBTI personality type if:
1] You both understand each other's language, dialect or way of speaking, while the respect is mutual.
2] Jealousy, pride/kibr, selfishness, insecurities, lies or suspicion do not get in the way of your dealings and interactions.
3] You can stay patient, lenient, and forgiving for Allah's sake with one another mutually.
4] You have several qualities, interests, or life experiences in common.
5] You both sincerely strive to do what Allah the Almighty likes, not mainly what your nafs or ego desires.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil.
By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📋 To discover what your MBTI personality type is:
https://my-personality-test.com/personality-type-indicator
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
http://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/
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https://www.idrlabs.com/test/intj-or-infj.php
https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2020/01/06/intjs-and-their-compatibility-with-every-myers-briggs-personality-type