Note: Understand That Not Everyone On Earth Will Like You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 It is a misconception to assume that achieving fame or being approved by the masses indicates Allah's Love for someone. Just because some individuals, activities, pages, YouTube videos, or ideas are popular doesn't necessarily imply you must join the crowd and root for them. 

A person of decent upbringing and sound thinking wouldn't chill around a junkyard full of garbage bags which attract tons of flies, maggots, and mosquitoes. So if you wonder why several Instagrammers and TikTokers quickly gain more fans than some informative Islamic channels, you'd realize that souls which are so similar in terms of their values, goals, and personality gravitate to each other more easily than to those who are too different from them. 

The best of all human beings, namely the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, was despised, unappreciated, and underestimated by his opponents from among the disbelievers, hypocrites, and apostates. 

It is impossible to be completely loved by each living thing on earth. For you to be lavished by everybody's approval and sympathy, you'd have to subserviently act in such a way that you meet every individual's demands, standards, and expectations, which means sacrificing a significant portion of who you truly are as a Muslim. Doing that, desperately trying to satisfy all of Allah's servants instead of concentrating on pleasing our Creator Allah the Almighty, would be inauthentic and disastrous to one's well-being. 

🌻 Three reasons why inevitably there will be a number of people on earth who may regard you as "toxic", "intolerable", "unlikable", "unworthy", and "annoying", despite being one of those believers whom Allah the Most Wise loves and promised Jannah Paradise: 

1] Envy: If there's something about you which makes them feel inferior, insecure, incompetent, jealous, or uncomfortably threatened in any way, they'd do whatever they can to stay away from you. 

2] Mismatch or clash of vibes: If their self-esteem, beliefs, and soul's energy conflict with yours constantly, tiring attempts to connect with them and understand their quirks could only lead to disharmony. 

3] Their assumption that your presence is not essential or useful yet in their lives: If you went shopping for eggs, bread, and toothbrushes, you'd prioritize purchasing those items and ignore the other products not because they lack value and functionality but you came there for your own necessities. You also purposely ignored the other merchandise as you couldn't afford them. 

Even if you're "too much" for some people or "not good enough", what's actually important is that we're special to Allah the Most Loving, just as He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala loves Prophet Nuh 'alaihis salaam and supported him in constructing the gigantic ark despite Nuh's tiny following.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah loves a servant, He calls Angel Jibreel (Gabriel 'alaihis salaam) and He (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says: 'Verily, I love this person so you should love him.' Then Angel Jibreel loves him and makes an announcement in the heavens, saying: 'Allah loves this person and you should love him.' Thus, the dwellers of the heavens love him and he is honored on the earth.”

In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah is angry with a servant, He calls Angel Jibreel and He says: 'I hate this person, so you should hate him.' Then Angel Jibreel resents him and makes an announcement in the heavens, saying: 'Verily, Allah hates this person, so you should hate him.' Thus, they become resentful with him and he is hated on the earth (for that person's crimes, wicked actions, and evil qualities)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3037 

Sahih Muslim 2637

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Mu’awiyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If Allah intends goodness for someone, He gives him understanding of the religion."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 71

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If Allah intends goodness for someone, He afflicts him with trials."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5321

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari 

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/8807/%D9%85%D9%86-%D8%A7%D8%AD%D8%A8%D9%87-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%84%D9%87-%D8%A7%D8%AD%D8%A8%D9%87-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%86%D8%A7%D8%B3 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/poem-find-peace-in-allahs-love-not.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-what-to-search-for-to-know-if.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-your-likes-and-followers-dont.html 

Note: Some Ways That INTJs Differ From ENTJs, INFJs, INTPs And ISTJs

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Comparing the INTJ personality type with ENTJ, INFJ, INTP, and ISTJ: 

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs ENTJ (TeNi) 

🔹 INTJs are more independent, solitary, and reclusive. A lot of them can be socially awkward and very selective when it comes to choosing friends. ENTJs are more charismatic, talkative, and domineering. They can be charming as hosts, managers, and leaders.

🔹 INTJs would rather lead behind the scenes and command a group only if nobody else is leading. ENTJs are eager to act as the boss whenever they find opportunity to be in a leadership position.

🔹 An INTJ would be more comfortable maintaining a blog or website than regularly uploading vlogs on YouTube. An ENTJ would appreciate public speaking more than sitting passively among an audience.

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs INFJ (NiFe) 

🔹 INTJs are generally unaffected by insults, misconduct, and negative feedback which most people may find offensive. INFJs are more sensitive and prone to feeling hurt when criticized.

🔹 INTJs mostly think about their goals, values, and what is important to them when making decisions. INFJs are more concerned about their loved ones and others' well-being than their selves.

🔹 An INTJ is likely to say "ignore your feelings.", "don't let emotions distract you. Crying won't solve this problem.", and "just do it. I don't care if some people get upset.". An INFJ would encourage you to "feel every emotion you're feeling thoroughly" and tell you "it's okay to cry. You'll heal from it eventually.".

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs INTP (TiNe) 

🔹 INTJs in general complete most tasks and get things done more than some INTPs. INTPs are okay with leaving an activity, assignment, and project unfinished, if they discover something else that's more interesting.

🔹 INTJs would rather do their job in a quiet environment peacefully than in a loud workplace with frequent interruptions. INTPs can still concentrate on their own work amidst all the noise and chaos.

🔹 To strangers, most INTJs appear serious, intense, or somewhat unapproachable, while INTPs are more laid-back, goofy, and not fussy about sticking to certain rules.

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs ISTJ (SiTe)

🔹 INTJs are more future-oriented, imaginative, and visionary than ISTJs who typically have better memories of the past, observation skills, and attention to details.

🔹 Since INTJs are good at efficiency, they're willing to skip steps, cancel ineffective plans, and ignore warnings if doing so leads to a goal or solves a problem much faster. Stereotypical ISTJs would ensure that they took every step and no process was left out when trying to achieve an aim.

🔹 An INTJ is likely to say "let's try a new way to do that.", "I'm not surprised that he's absent again. I knew we can't rely on him.", and "I've moved on. There's no turning back. Those who aren't part of our family tree are dispensable.". ISTJs on the other hand may find these statements relatable: "it is what it is. I'm not going to change our tradition.", "stick to the old ways, because that is how it has always been done.", and "rules are rules. There's no way to find yourself around them, when I'm assigned to make sure they're all followed.".

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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

 📝 To discover what your MBTI type is, you're welcome to take these tests:

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

http://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/ 

https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5dab0e69919f5e0014ceba9f

https://www.personalitytestbirdy.com/test/personality-test/ 

https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new

Hadith: The Importance Of Responding To The Muaddhin When He Calls The Adhan

📖 Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When the caller to prayer says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest,’ then let one of you say, ‘Allah is the Greatest (Allahu Akbar), Allah is the Greatest.’ Then he says, ‘I testify there is no God but Allah,’ one says, ‘I testify there is no God but Allah.’ Then he says, ‘I testify that Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) is the Messenger of Allah,’ one says, ‘I testify that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.’ Then he says, ‘Come to the prayer,’ one says, 'There is no power or might but in Allah. (Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa Billah)' Then he says, ‘Come to the salvation (to success),’ one says, 'There is no power or might but in Allah. (Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa Billah)' Then he says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest,’ one says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.’ Then he says, ‘There is no God but Allah,’ one says, ‘There is no God but Allah,’ from his heart and he will enter Paradise."

Source: Sahih Muslim 385

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://youtu.be/ROfd6AoadZ0 

https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhGptZX2tQ1q7oAy4EkdU_hkhK-2EhpIQ