🗒️ Three positive qualities which make you seem very "intimidating" and "unapproachable" by certain people:
1] Your trust in Allah the Almighty, your strong faith / Imaan and confidence (not insecure arrogance) inspire you to be resilient, to take the initiative when necessary and to not quit instantly.
2] It is obvious that you are incredibly selective and cautious regarding your choice of close friends. With Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala guiding you, you're not afraid to stand out and you don't oblige others to cheer for you constantly.
3] Comparing yourself to other individuals and acting upon toxic feelings of jealousy due to inferiority complex are some of the things you refuse to do stubbornly.
❎ What kind of person would hesitate to connect with you, as they find you intimidating?
1] The one with low self-esteem, who feels inadequate (not good enough) around you and gets jealous easily.
2] An untruthful person with a bad agenda, who seeks to manipulate people and take advantage of their kindness. Apparently they lost interest in getting to know you better once they've discovered that you have the guts to speak up, the potential to expose their lies, and the integrity to unapologetically detach from those who are dishonest.
3] A selfish narcissist who goes out of their way to anxiously avoid you since they don't want you stealing any of their joys or limelight.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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