💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Checklist to determine how loyal you are to your dear husband - if at least seven of these points describe you perfectly, then you are a loyal wife:
1] You don't have "guy friends" and non-mahram males on your Facebook friends list.
2] You know how to control your gaze and avoid unnecessarily staring at the faces and photos of non-mahram males. If occasionally you must glimpse at a male speaker or lecturer online and offline, you make sure that your glances are completely devoid of inappropriate feelings.
3] You try your best to refrain from chatting aimlessly with non-mahram males online and offline.
4] Complimenting non-mahram guys for their looks is something you never do. Telling somebody they're "handsome" (or "gwapo") is restricted exclusively for your husband.
5] Whenever someone would directly or indirectly criticize your husband in any way, you're quick to defend your soulmate or quit building connections with his critics for Allah's sake.
6] Noticing how other women's husbands seem to give them more gifts and attention than how your busy husband spends time with you doesn't make you feel jealous nor insecure. You're entirely contented with the man whom Allah the Most Wise chose for you.
7] Adamantly you resist the urge to talk about your husband negatively to other individuals. If ever you mention an aspect about him which you dislike, specially when answering a question, you make sure that you immediately emphasize how you still deeply care about him for Allah's sake and how all his admirable traits outweigh his human mistakes.
8] When some people behave inappropriately with you or act flirtatious, you cleverly deter their moves, become stubbornly distant towards them, and firmly decide to avoid stalking their accounts on social media.
9] You've made a promise to yourself that if ever your husband asks for separation, you'd still want him back, obstinately reject all marriage proposals you receive from willing suitors, avoid or lessen interactions with anybody who assumes that "you deserve better", loyally maintain friendly ties with his loved ones and faithfully keep asking Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for his return until he requests for a second wedding even if waiting takes several years.
10] For Allah's sake, you are consistently, courageously and patiently forgiving towards your husband.
11] You're not one of those immodest females who regularly take selfies and upload their self-aggrandizing pictures online.
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📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyad As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/
💚 From the noteworthy qualities of a righteous Muslim wife:
https://youtu.be/6RvNrnJ0MdU