💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ What to do when you realize that somebody's misconduct and mistreatment emphasize they're jealous of you:
1] As much as possible keep your distance from them online and offline. Quit stalking their social media accounts, being interested in what they have to say and socializing with them unnecessarily.
2] Don't trust them at all, even if they act cheerful and approachable towards you.
3] Never tell them about your dreams nor ask them for advice.
4] Never be affected by their criticism, complaints and jokes about you. Understand that their efforts to annoy you could indicate they're struggling with feeling insecure, jealously threatened or inadequate.
5] Never confide in them about your worries, problems and secrets. Envious individuals may misuse the information you share for mockery or gossip.
6] If they ever borrow money and items from you, don't expect a timely response or the item they borrowed being returned in its proper condition. Good manners and loyalty are not to be expected from those who can't restrain themselves from envying other Muslims.
7] Feel sorry for them. Their discontentment with Allah's Justice and Wisdom is probably why they're unhappy inwardly. You don't need to get back at someone who's dealing with misery when they're already insulting themselves through jealousy.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not envy each other, do not outbid each other, do not hate each other, do not turn away from each other, and do not outsell each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers. The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not wrong him, nor humiliate him, nor look down upon him. Righteousness is here," and he pointed to his chest three times. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough evil for a man to look down upon his Muslim brother. The entirety of the Muslim is sacred to another Muslim: his life, his wealth, and his reputation."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2564
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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