💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📑 Note to ex-friends whom I've left and thought could be trusted:
You can either regret for taking us for granted,
For letting me realize it was all one-sided,
Or you can gladly accept what Allah selected,
That a date has been set when we'd be disconnected.
~•~
I tried my best, to tell you the truth, I truly did,
To keep the friendship before I figured "Forget it".
Quiet efforts to stay in touch were loudly dismissed,
Deep topics to discuss and places we could visit
Were not accomplished, so I had you easily ditched.
~•~
I detested the moments when I would feel anxious
Prior to making attempts at wanting to connect
With somebody who didn't seem communicative.
It felt as though I was lecturing to an object
And uttering each letter never brought benefit.
~•~
So I walked away for Allah's sake, without regret,
From someone who returned my care with clear unkindness.
Clearly your soul and mine don't get each other's language.
Attempting to understand you just creates conflict.
Feel free to walk downhill. Watch me relish self-respect.
~•~
Don't fret. Your secrets are safe with me. I won't gossip.
In fact, I'll do whatever I can with eagerness
To avoid saying your name in private and public.
Safely I assure you that your presence won't be missed.
Choices made to please Allah don't instigate regret.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782
Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
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