Hadith: Warning Against Wailing, Being Impatient With Allah's Qadr/Decree And Crying Too Loudly Over The Deceased

Allah the Almighty knows best. 

📖 Ibn 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated from his father that the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The deceased is punished in his grave for the wailing done over him." (Refrain from wailing or crying too loudly over those who have returned to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.)

Reference: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1292

In-book reference: Book 23, Hadith 51

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 2, Book 23, Hadith 379 

📖 1657. 'Umar bin Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The deceased is (punished) tortured in his grave for the bewailing (of the living) over him."

[Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim] 

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