💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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✅ If you truly love your husband for Allah's sake, never allow our archenemy shaytan and these eleven to spoil your marriage:
1] Feeling dissatisfied that your marriage doesn't appear to be as "idealistic", romantic or visibly enjoyable as the marriages of your friends and colleagues.
2] Unreasonably expecting your husband to never disappoint and offend you, as if he's not supposed to be human nor feel some emotions of his own.
3] Arrogantly refusing to forgive your husband even if he has tried to apologize to you directly numerous times. A marriage between Muslim husband and wife/wives may not continue until Jannah Paradise if the ego/pride or kibr of one of them is bigger than the weight of all mountains on earth combined.
4] Being unrealistically, unreasonably and inconsiderately overly demanding, wanting your other half to be "flawless" while you yourself are full of imperfections as well.
5] Wrongly assuming that the main sign your husband loves you is if he consistently spoils you with full attention while striving to keep you satisfied by granting large allowance.
6] Stumbling upon or overhearing unpleasant news about couples breaking up and being tempted to jump on the lousy bandwagon. "Lots of mismatched lovers splitting up? Looks like a trend I need to try. It's okay... someday somehow I can find a more deserving guy." Wrong. Marry another man and he may be even worse than the one you left, or choose to remain separated while struggling with deep-seated regret.
7] Letting yourself lose that easily to the devastating effects of witchcraft or sorcery which some awfully envious outsiders may have carried out against you and your husband.
8] Ignorantly denying the fact that it is lawful for men in Islam to be married to up to four wives, without requiring straightforward permission from the former wife/wives to remarry, as long as the Muslim man is financially capable to sustain a big family and agrees to strive to care for his multiple wives as fairly as he can for Allah's sake.
9] Unattractive tendency to feel defeated by jealousy, frequently mistrusting your spouse and irrationally misinterpreting your husband's polite manners towards other females as "cheating" or "disloyalty".
10] Not being strong enough to control your fluctuating feelings for certain individuals and stupidly fantasizing how they could satisfy you a lot more than your husband can.
11] Idiotically obsessing over so-called romance films and pathetically wishing your love story were exactly similar to one of them, not staying contented with the halal love journey which Allah the Most Loving wisely designed for you.
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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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