Poem: Dear Husband, Although I'm Not Perfect I Strive To Love You Perfectly For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Dear husband, the man whom Allah chose as my soulmate, 

Despite the fact I'm not perfect in numerous ways 

And I can't always stop myself from making mistakes, 

I'm perfectly grateful to be your wife, and I say 

This without lying that I love you for Allah's sake. 

~•~ 

Yes, beloved husband, I love you for Allah's sake 

Even though we're not passionate every night and day, 

I assure you I'm passionately loyal always, 

Talkative with very few, disciplined with my gaze, 

And defending you like lawyers fight to win a case. 

~•~ 

While I'm not fab with makeup nor have a flawless face, 

And though I'm not trained at maintaining an ideal weight, 

I try to look at least decent and for Allah's sake 

Your kindness more than your body I appreciate. 

To me, you're always handsome regardless of your age. 

~•~ 

Forgive me if I can't ensure I smell nice always, 

If to musk and lavenders my scent doesn't equate 

While I fail to do certain tasks with absolute grace. 

Nonetheless in spite of my flaws I sincerely pray 

That Allah blesses my loving you for Allah's sake. 

~•~ 

Dear husband, though I'm not perfect in so many ways, 

"I'm fine if you have four wives" I can faithfully state, 

Not coz I lack self-respect but I'd rather remain 

Married to the man whom Allah gave as my soulmate. 

Loving you for Allah is what makes you worth the wait.

~•~ 

📖 Abdullah Ibn 'Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believing man does not despise a believing woman. If he finds something in her character which he dislikes, he will still be pleased by something else."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1469

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Note: Some Factors Which Could Prevent Us From Connecting More Deeply With Some People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 A few factors which could prevent you from wanting to form a friendship with some people: 

1] Jealousy: 

•° If they feel jealous of you for some reason, they may refuse to connect.

•° If some of their joys, capabilities or attributes cause you to be slightly envious, avoiding them may be more manageable than struggling with envy whenever they're around.

•° If you're both envious of each other, building a friendship can be a struggle.

2] Insecurities or lack of trust: 

•° If they are incapable of feeling safe and comfortable around you, if their presence makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure due to dissimilar goals and values which lead to conflict, or if you equally regard each other as unreliable, then it doesn't make sense to become allies. 

3] Expecting too much from them and refusing to forgive their past mistakes: 

•° If they perceive that you haven't done enough to be counted as an ideal friend, if you find them uninspiring or you still haven't forgiven them wholeheartedly, or if you mutually sense the "friendship" is one-sided, then both sides would eventually stop trying to become actual friends. 

Usually those with decent upbringing would refrain from associating with anybody who appears like a threat and who could influence them to do things they don't really wish to do. So when you wonder why certain friendships fail to last longer than you anticipated them to, realize that maybe jealous feelings got in the way of connecting, you were obviously incompatible, or simply Allah the Most Wise didn't allow you to remain in a connection which is harmful for your faith/Imaan and emotional well-being.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith (Imaan) and envy do not combine within a believing servant."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."

Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim  

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