💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📑 Five kinds of people whose so-called advice regarding love and marriage life don't deserve to be taken:
1] People who are obviously jealous of you and who'd hate to see you succeed or surpass them in any way.
2] Individuals who have never been married and haven't actually experienced what real love for Allah's sake feels like.
3] Divorcees who try to advise you according to their own standards or ego, without considering what is truly best for you in both worlds.
4] Obvious narcissists who believe in the importance of insecurely playing hard to get and who are incapable of understanding the virtues of loyalty, gratitude, contentment, patience, steadfastness, empathy and forgiveness.
5] Those who lack Taqwa, who don't believe in Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, and who seem overly attached to this fleeting dunya. Someone who doesn't put effort into striving to be pious for Allah's sake may give you wrong "tips" which could prevent you from succeeding in this world and the afterlife.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations (mischief, trouble). One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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