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🗒️ Question: When would most INTJs cancel attending a gathering or online meeting (via Google Meet, Zoom etc.)?
📝 Answer: 1. When they've figured out, with Allah's Will and guidance from Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, after thorough evaluation and reflective analysis, that staying in or doing something else is a wiser choice and more worthwhile alternative to unwillingly attending a social event or meeting, particularly if a number of the attendees include individuals whom the INTJs reasonably despise or simply won't trust.
2. When they are so busy and preoccupied with several tasks which the INTJs affirm are more important than socializing begrudgingly or sincerely attempting to act artificial.
3. When they realize that attending such social event or online meeting is actually a lousy idea while they can visualize all the probable problematic outcomes which could result from mingling reluctantly with incompatible strangers whose integrity and background are undoubtedly questionable.
🌼 Adjectives that would describe an INTJ who unapologetically decides to cancel going to a cheesy social event or attending an irrelevant online meeting?
Indifferent, relieved, unaffected, contented, accomplished, triumphant, victorious, impressed (by their willful decision to stay in), or Alhamdulillah grateful.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim