Monday, June 3, 2024

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (35)


Poem: When You Seem Intimidating To Some, Expect To Be Envied Or Ignored Sometimes

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📜 When you've been described as "intimidating" by some 
Or "somewhat scary" by someone whether old or young, 
While you trust Allah the Almighty whilst His servants' 
Opinions and complaints don't affect your decisions, 
Stay firm, don't change yourself to appease Allah's servants.
~•~
When you're intimidating to clowns whose confidence 
Is clearly low or non-existent, very often 
You may go through exclusion in most situations - 
A lot may shun sitting near you while others would run 
Away from any chance to prolong conversations.
~•~
At times you're the topic discussed by jealous women 
Through disgusting rumors or unjust accusations, 
Badly mentioned by snakes who envy your achievements, 
Then ignored on purpose in countless situations, 
Avoided like how the sun's hot rays are sometimes shunned.
~•~
You're too bright or too fierce for some, and that's fine as long 
As you don't purposely aim to oppress anyone.
If you're assertive and don't fear seeming different, 
Those threatened by your strong presence may do what they can 
To make you feel left out or like a lonesome alien.
~•~
Don't be influenced by their nonsense. As a Muslim, 
Strive to pass Allah's tests with patience and resilience. 
Continue researching to enhance intelligence, 
And when you're eschewed by some childish jealous women, 
Move on, thank Allah you're not like insecure humans.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: "If only I had done something else." Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim