🗒️ A raw, honest list that dives into character vs. appearance, especially highlighting how cosmetics can’t cover the soul. Let’s explore:
35 Signs of Someone Inwardly Ugly Despite Heavy Makeup:
👎 Constantly puts others down to feel superior
👎 Speaks with sarcasm meant to wound
👎 Is kind only to people who they assume are useful or beneficial to them
👎 Competes with everyone, even secretly
👎 Brags or name-drops to seem important
👎 Enjoys gossiping and frequently spreads rumors for fun
👎 Always needs to be the center of attention
👎 Fakes kindness only when it benefits them
👎 Treats janitors and service workers poorly
👎 Too obnoxiously arrogant to apologize — even when evidently wrong
👎 Expects perfection but offers none
👎 Smiles in your face, cowardly gossips behind you
👎 Can’t stand someone else’s happiness and glow-up
👎 Regularly causes or gets involved in drama
👎 Usually not good at listening — only waiting to speak or respond
👎 Jealous of every woman who enters a room
👎 Chooses manipulation over honesty
👎 Holds grudges like trophies
👎 Interrupts others constantly without valid excuses
👎 Laughs at people’s insecurities
👎 Competes with friends instead of feeling joyful for them
👎 Gaslights and blames others often
👎 Ignores boundaries
👎 Refuses to acknowledge others' achievements online and offline
👎 Constantly compares and criticizes
👎 Uses silent treatment as a weapon (ignoring your messages and not reacting to your posts or online content with an aim to manipulate you emotionally)
👎 Craves validation, not connection
👎 Uses people, then quickly discards them
👎 Tries to make others feel small when they are jealously threatened
👎 Keeps relationships transactional (If you do this, I will... I'll only do this if you...)
👎 Thinks empathy is weakness
👎 Craves admiration but fears authenticity
👎 Blames others for their unhappiness
👎 Glorifies materialism (they idiotically assume that looking and acting "rich" are more important than more meaningful matters like faith/Imaan, values, integrity and beautiful character etc.)
👎 Sees kindness as stupidity
35 Signs of a Woman with Genuine Inner Beauty (Even Without Makeup):
✅ Makes others feel safe to be themselves
✅ Smiles from the soul with sincerity.
✅ Listens deeply, not just politely
✅ Speaks with calm confidence
✅ Lifts other women up without competition
✅ Keeps promises — even the small ones
✅ Apologizes sincerely when wrong
✅ Notices who’s left out and brings them in
✅ Asks questions with genuine curiosity
✅ Gives without expecting applause
✅ Celebrates others' wins
✅ Shows up when it’s inconvenient
✅ Holds space for others' emotions
✅ Looks at people and tries to understand them, not judge them
✅ Is honest, even when it’s hard
✅ Treats strangers with the same kindness as friends
✅ Finds beauty in ordinary things
✅ Stays grounded when others lose it
✅ Makes you feel seen and heard instead of deliberately excluding you to relieve their insecurities
✅ Has depth in silence, not just noise
✅ Encourages people behind the scenes
✅ Can laugh at herself when she makes some mistakes
✅ Doesn't feel the desperate need to constantly prove herself, yet inspires others to become better versions of themselves
✅ Radiates peace, not pressure
✅ Keeps other people’s secrets
✅ Leads by example, not ego
✅ Notices the needs of others without being asked
✅ Finds joy in giving when she has the means to share
✅ Isn’t obsessed with looking "flawless"
✅ Doesn’t broadcast her troubles to earn sympathy
✅ Feels deeply, but doesn’t let it harden her
✅ Has firm boundaries without cruelty
✅ Doesn’t compete with people — she connects with those whose values and goals align with hers
✅ Her presence is more comforting than intimidating (around individuals who are not insecure or envious)
✅ People leave her feeling better (more motivated), not drained.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
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✅ Here is a 35-item checklist to measure one’s inner beauty, grounded in Islamic values, emotional intelligence, and moral character:
Inner Beauty Checklist (Halal Version)
Check all that apply to you honestly and reflectively.
I speak kindly to others, even when I’m upset. ( )
I avoid gossip and backbiting, even when tempted. ( )
I forgive people, even when they haven’t asked for forgiveness. ( )
I strive to see the good in others. ( )
I give without expecting anything in return. ( )
I’m honest even when it’s difficult. ( )
I say “Alhamdulillah” in both good and hard times. ( )
I help those in need whenever I can. ( )
I admit when I’m wrong and sincerely apologize. ( )
I keep my promises and commitments. ( )
I lower my gaze and respect others’ dignity. ( )
I treat everyone with respect, regardless of their status. ( )
I control my anger and don’t act on it impulsively. ( )
I pray regularly and strive to maintain strong connection with our Only God and Creator Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. ( )
I make Du’a for others, even if they don’t know. ( )
I listen attentively without interrupting. ( )
I seek knowledge to better myself for Allah's sake and regularly share some knowledge to help others. ( )
I care about the feelings of others. ( )
I strive to stay patient when things don’t always go my way. ( )
I don't show off my good deeds. ( )
I respect my dear parents and elders. ( )
I treat animals and nature with care. ( )
I uplift others with my words. ( )
I try to be grateful every day. ( )
I give sincere compliments. ( )
I remain humble no matter how much I achieve. ( )
I don’t judge others based on their appearance. ( )
I support my friends in doing good. ( )
I keep others’ secrets and respect their trust. ( )
I do things with good intentions (niyyah). ( )
I never envy others for their blessings. ( )
I defend others when they’re treated unfairly. ( )
I’m consistent in doing small acts of kindness. ( )
I remember Allah the Almighty in both joy and sorrow. ( )
I strive to be a source of peace for those around me (online and offline). ( )
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT