بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
⚠️3 common bad habits of insecure females who painfully envy you:
1. They purposely go out of their way to exclude you whenever you can. For example, if they give some gifts or souvenirs to a group, they intentionally ignore you and desperately want you to know they left you out just so their emotional distress in feeling jealous of you would be relieved slightly. Or in a group chat online - they readily answer other chat members' questions yet whenever you're the one asking questions they simply leave you on "seen" or "read" mode - obnoxiously on a regular basis and it's obvious they're evading you.
2. They're consistently terrible at communicating with you. As much as possible they stay away from responding to your messages and fear being confronted by you offline because your mere presence triggers them to feel so inferior or extremely uneasy - full of intense jealousy, recalling how a lot of your notable and admirable qualities and numerous achievements or talents Alhamdulillah outshine or surpass their insecurities.
3. You notice their frequent scowls or sarcastic eye rolls whenever you must speak to them as if they're tired of hearing you talk due to feeling smaller than you or incompetent somehow. "Ugh, there she goes again talking to me as if she has to remind me she's way better than me in many ways. Every time she contributes something I feel as though I'm not as marvelous as her" etc.
✅ Three things you can do when you have no choice but to occasionally deal with very sad and envious individuals who want to upset you so they're not the only ones who are emotionally disturbed:
1. Stay unfazed and unaffected by their lousy efforts to sadden you in any way. Don't copy their unkindness. In fact, keep winning and doing better than them in having more beautiful character and maintaining basic courtesy.
2. Gladly unfollow them on social media and don't take their words seriously. Whatever news they publicly share with others - just brush them off and focus on your own road, circle and ambitions.
3. Learn to be completely different from them. Confidently refrain from making any human feel excluded as much as you can because you're not an insecure jealous overgrown bully.
May Allah the Almighty grant us more wisdom and guidance and keep us away from those who have negative motives against us. Ameen.
1. They purposely go out of their way to exclude you whenever you can. For example, if they give some gifts or souvenirs to a group, they intentionally ignore you and desperately want you to know they left you out just so their emotional distress in feeling jealous of you would be relieved slightly. Or in a group chat online - they readily answer other chat members' questions yet whenever you're the one asking questions they simply leave you on "seen" or "read" mode - obnoxiously on a regular basis and it's obvious they're evading you.
2. They're consistently terrible at communicating with you. As much as possible they stay away from responding to your messages and fear being confronted by you offline because your mere presence triggers them to feel so inferior or extremely uneasy - full of intense jealousy, recalling how a lot of your notable and admirable qualities and numerous achievements or talents Alhamdulillah outshine or surpass their insecurities.
3. You notice their frequent scowls or sarcastic eye rolls whenever you must speak to them as if they're tired of hearing you talk due to feeling smaller than you or incompetent somehow. "Ugh, there she goes again talking to me as if she has to remind me she's way better than me in many ways. Every time she contributes something I feel as though I'm not as marvelous as her" etc.
✅ Three things you can do when you have no choice but to occasionally deal with very sad and envious individuals who want to upset you so they're not the only ones who are emotionally disturbed:
1. Stay unfazed and unaffected by their lousy efforts to sadden you in any way. Don't copy their unkindness. In fact, keep winning and doing better than them in having more beautiful character and maintaining basic courtesy.
2. Gladly unfollow them on social media and don't take their words seriously. Whatever news they publicly share with others - just brush them off and focus on your own road, circle and ambitions.
3. Learn to be completely different from them. Confidently refrain from making any human feel excluded as much as you can because you're not an insecure jealous overgrown bully.
May Allah the Almighty grant us more wisdom and guidance and keep us away from those who have negative motives against us. Ameen.