💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five signs of untrustworthy people who don't deserve
your trust:
1] They enjoy backbiting and talking badly regarding
others behind their backs. Someone who obnoxiously spreads rumors about another
Muslim, while ignoring their positive qualities, is likely to gossip about you
when you're not on friendly terms.
2] Instead of keeping their negative thoughts about you
to themselves like mature and confident adults would do, they make lame
attempts to give you a bad name and childishly describe you to other friends in
an offensive manner, whether in your presence or absence.
3] Due to undeniable jealousy or inferiority complex,
they refuse to acknowledge your good side. They have a tendency to magnify your
flaws, errors and imperfections, while forgetting the favors and acts of
kindness you've previously done to them. The only time they usually speak to
you is when you do something wrong.
4] Since they're guilty of having low self-esteem, being
insecure, or envying your life journey, they tend to be passive-aggressive,
manipulative or unsupportive of you. Your dreams, concerns, worries, secrets,
innermost thoughts, plans or lessons learned shouldn't be shared freely with
jealous individuals who'd hate to see you succeed.
5] They've lied to you at least once, broken a promise,
or proved to be unreliable or unhelpful without bothering to apologize,
compensate for their slip-ups and clarify why they messed up.
"Friends" who are untruthful, dishonest or deceitful aren't deserving
of knowing a lot about you. Stay low-key when necessary, and cleverly keep your
distance from those who can't be trusted.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble
Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not
stung twice from the same hole."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782, Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon)
according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim