💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Eleven tips, advice and reminders to husbands -
To each husband whom Allah granted a companion,
Your destined soulmate, your partner specially chosen
To travel with you side by side to Jannah Heaven:
~*~
One: So your marriage is full of barakah/blessings,
Ensure you married for Allah, with good intention,
To raise righteous Muslim children, with halal income,
And love your wife for Allah's sake with loving patience.
~*~
Two: Remind yourself that Allah is always watching
And near you are noble Angels who are recording.
So control your gaze and don't stare at other women.
Three: Be grateful for your wife and her sweet compassion.
~*~
Four: Understand your wife's moods and their fluctuation,
Specially when she has her period/menstruation.
Be strong enough to tolerate her random scoldings.
Being prone to anger simply means she's just caring.
~*~
Five: Sympathize with your wife. Sometimes she needs distance
Or some space for self-reflection and relaxation.
True love isn't always shown in daily love-making,
But in mutual trust, Sabr and appreciation.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 1162
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi
📖 Al-Miqdam Ibn Ma’di RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "What you feed yourself is charity for you, what you feed your children is charity for you, what you feed your wife is charity for you, and what you feed your servant is charity for you."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 16727
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Mu’awiyah Al-Qushayri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of women (our wives) over us?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That you feed them when you eat, you clothe them when you clothe yourself, you do not strike her face, and you do not rebuke her or boycott except inside the house."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2142
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Arna’ut
💌 Eleven tips, advice and reminders to husbands -
To each husband whom Allah granted a companion,
Your destined soulmate, your partner specially chosen
To travel with you side by side to Jannah Heaven:
~*~
One: So your marriage is full of barakah/blessings,
Ensure you married for Allah, with good intention,
To raise righteous Muslim children, with halal income,
And love your wife for Allah's sake with loving patience.
~*~
Two: Remind yourself that Allah is always watching
And near you are noble Angels who are recording.
So control your gaze and don't stare at other women.
Three: Be grateful for your wife and her sweet compassion.
~*~
Four: Understand your wife's moods and their fluctuation,
Specially when she has her period/menstruation.
Be strong enough to tolerate her random scoldings.
Being prone to anger simply means she's just caring.
~*~
Five: Sympathize with your wife. Sometimes she needs distance
Or some space for self-reflection and relaxation.
True love isn't always shown in daily love-making,
But in mutual trust, Sabr and appreciation.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 1162
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi
📖 Al-Miqdam Ibn Ma’di RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "What you feed yourself is charity for you, what you feed your children is charity for you, what you feed your wife is charity for you, and what you feed your servant is charity for you."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 16727
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Mu’awiyah Al-Qushayri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of women (our wives) over us?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "That you feed them when you eat, you clothe them when you clothe yourself, you do not strike her face, and you do not rebuke her or boycott except inside the house."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2142
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Arna’ut