💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Ways to answer someone who calls you "ugly", "pangit" or "not pretty":
1] Confidently respond with a clever comeback e.g. "I never hired you to be my personal assistant. Please do your job of being judgmental somewhere else.", "Congratulations. I see you learned a new word. Is 'ugly' relevant to your upbringing or personality?", or "Sorry, but I'm not a mirror. You can try checking your reflection with that glass or cellphone screen and confirm your "ugliness" there.'
2] Ask a rhetorical question so they realize their ignorance or idiocy e.g. "Have you heard about the story of Julaybib RadhiAllahu 'anhu and how the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam cared about him in spite of his appearance?", "Do you get rich every time you say the word 'ugly' or are you saying that only because you have awfully low self-esteem?", "'Ugly'? Is that your nickname? Should I call you that from now on?", "No matter how many times you claim I'm 'ugly', my face is still prettier than your poop.", "And? What do you gain from being rude? Are you incredibly insecure that you're desperate to bring others down to feel better about yourself?", "Spell 'ugly'? U-g-l-y. Did you sign me up for a spelling bee or you wanted me to spell an adjective that describes your personality?", or "No, I don't sell 'uglies' here. My apologies."
3] Try to patiently walk away from the disrespectful person without saying anything. Distance yourself from toxic individuals who are in denial of their own flaws and imperfections.
Difficult people can be blessings in disguise when avoiding them is good training to stay away from sins, while your level of patience goes up so
Inn-sha-Allah you're among those worthy of Jannah Paradise.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but rather He looks at your hearts and actions."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2564
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abdullah Bin Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hands the Muslims are safe."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 10 Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
💌 Ways to answer someone who calls you "ugly", "pangit" or "not pretty":
1] Confidently respond with a clever comeback e.g. "I never hired you to be my personal assistant. Please do your job of being judgmental somewhere else.", "Congratulations. I see you learned a new word. Is 'ugly' relevant to your upbringing or personality?", or "Sorry, but I'm not a mirror. You can try checking your reflection with that glass or cellphone screen and confirm your "ugliness" there.'
2] Ask a rhetorical question so they realize their ignorance or idiocy e.g. "Have you heard about the story of Julaybib RadhiAllahu 'anhu and how the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam cared about him in spite of his appearance?", "Do you get rich every time you say the word 'ugly' or are you saying that only because you have awfully low self-esteem?", "'Ugly'? Is that your nickname? Should I call you that from now on?", "No matter how many times you claim I'm 'ugly', my face is still prettier than your poop.", "And? What do you gain from being rude? Are you incredibly insecure that you're desperate to bring others down to feel better about yourself?", "Spell 'ugly'? U-g-l-y. Did you sign me up for a spelling bee or you wanted me to spell an adjective that describes your personality?", or "No, I don't sell 'uglies' here. My apologies."
3] Try to patiently walk away from the disrespectful person without saying anything. Distance yourself from toxic individuals who are in denial of their own flaws and imperfections.
Difficult people can be blessings in disguise when avoiding them is good training to stay away from sins, while your level of patience goes up so
Inn-sha-Allah you're among those worthy of Jannah Paradise.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but rather He looks at your hearts and actions."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2564
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abdullah Bin Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hands the Muslims are safe."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 10 Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari