💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Some obvious signs you have a strong personality,
And inner strength is a gift from Allah Almighty:
One: You're not afraid of people's doubts and enmity.
When some unfriend you, you react with "It's no biggie",
"Whatevs", "Their loss, not mine", and "It doesn't affect me".
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Two: You don't chase people who clash with your energy.
You're not a people-pleaser. You serve Allah Only.
If some souls despise you due to conflict or envy,
You don't adjust yourself to match their bad qualities.
Let them go. Goodbye to their brief role in your story.
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Three: When haters and strangers treat you unpleasantly,
When they undermine you or proved they're untrustworthy,
You remain true, honest, and maintain integrity.
Four: You loathe gossip and clowns who backbite childishly.
You prefer talks that improve your faith and piety.
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Five: You're fine on you're own, while trusting Allah solely.
Doing things solo at times can't make you feel lonely.
Six: You're not easily swayed by the majority.
Silly trends and irrational acts you don't copy.
You stick to the truth though its people aren't many.
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Seven: Even if described wrongly or unjustly,
Or if called "weirdo", "fatso", "poor", "ugly" or "stinky",
You stand firm and sympathize, "They're insecure, really.
They're not perfect either, so their jokes don't impact me."
Strong souls help and uplift others, not behave rudely.
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Eight: You know when to speak truthfully and helpfully,
When to defend someone, cheer and encourage kindly,
And when it's best to shut up to shun stupidity.
Nine: Others' joys and treasures can't trigger jealousy,
Aware that Allah distributed His tests wisely.
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Ten: Patient and accepting of Allah's Destiny,
You persevere, don't quit, amidst life's difficulties.
Eleven: You're teachable, learn from people you meet,
And you're strong enough to forgive, share, teach, say sorry,
And leave those who act as obstacles in your journey.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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