💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five signs that you're a tough wife, and loyal wives are few,
And your strength comes from Allah Who knows your love is true:
One - In spite of challenges you may sometimes go through,
You still love your spouse - to quit loving him you refuse,
As discarding blessings is not something you would do.
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Two - When at times he acts in a way that can confuse,
Or his choices often cause critics to misconstrue,
You empathize, remain firm, don't feel at all "abused",
Because you sense behind his actions are reasons you
Don't know yet, and he's not someone you're willing to lose.
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Three - Since being his wife is a gift which you value,
Other wives' complaints about their men can't impact you,
And stories of divorcees inspire you to ensure
That fierce loyalty towards your soulmate remains true.
You're not a fake lover whose commitment is untrue.
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Four - You're not nosy, even if some assume it's cute
When ladies spy on their lovers to be reassured.
Lack of clinginess or nosiness doesn't reduce
Your care for your other half, but it implies that you
Trust him, and believe Allah sees what His servants do.
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Five - Whether he remarries or he works far from you,
You're content with loving him, and of his love you're sure,
And your faithfulness won't drop even if he is poor,
Outwardly aloof, or to strangers not good for you.
Marriage is like a game which strong wives don't wish to lose.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Ḥibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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💚 Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.