💌 Five signs to watch out for to spot a disloyal wife,
To detect a woman who's easily prone to pride
And who acts like she loves her husband when deep inside
She married him just for the cash that he can provide,
Or for his job title so by many she's admired:
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One - Online and offline she befriends non-mahram guys,
Chatting with this guy and other men in her spare time
About random issues without guilt, and in her eyes
It's "fine" to be chill and casual with people she likes,
As hanging with males since high school is her usual style.
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Two - To take a sip from where her spouse drank she dislikes.
If she knows the parts where he ate from or took some bites
From edibles she'd nibble at a different side
Or rewash the utensils he used several times.
Treat him like a lover, not dirt you're disgusted by.
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Three - Domineering and disrespectful of his rights,
She bosses him around and yells at him oftentimes,
Tries to control his whereabouts, goals, likes and dislikes,
And she threatens him with divorce whenever they'd fight,
Asserting she can marry another anytime.
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Four - Insincere in her love, untrustworthy and sly,
Manipulative and self-serving a lot of times,
This actress easily switches from kind to unkind
When her husband can't fulfill demands although he's tired
And struggling. The term "uncaring" befits bad wives.
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Five - Scornfully she insists that he'd prioritize
Pleasing her more than his mom and Allah the Most Wise.
She's the type to frequently criticize and backbite
About her in-laws, adding stress to her husband's life,
Through frequent nagging, scolding, complaints, and spiteful vibes.
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From the traits common among loyal and patient wives:
They fear Allah most, love one's spouse for Allah, and strive
To be gentle, to be respectful, to sympathize,
Help one's zawj in what's right, and if he's unsatisfied,
They're willing to bravely share him with another wife.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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