💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Three reasons why it's wrong to spy on your man's cellphone,
Why it's unwise to inspect what he specially owns
Even if the password to his phone's screen lock is known,
Or when you're found using his gadget he never scolds,
It's still wiser to respect him wherever he goes:
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Firstly - Frequently searching through his phone clearly shows
That you can't trust him, as though he's not a grown adult.
Snooping around his inbox when he just came from work,
While he's asleep, in the bathroom, working or outdoors,
Makes him feel much smaller than your distrust and ego.
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Second - Monitoring his phone usage, what he knows,
Who he communicates with and the places he'd go,
Can waste your time, more so if he keeps other cellphones.
Acting like a surveillance cam or agent also
Increases stress when pointless curiosity grows.
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Third - No need to surveil one's spouse when Muslims should know
That Allah sees all the things which occur in this world,
There are recording angels watching how souls perform,
On Judgment Day Allah's Perfect Justice shall be shown,
And lack of trust between spouses can bring forth divorce.
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Believe in Allah and be smart enough to take note
That loyal, tough and patient wives are so few on earth.
By insecurely keeping track of your husband's phone,
You're sending him signal that he can't be left alone,
As you won't trust him, until he leaves you on your own.
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📖 Mu'awiyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, if you seek out the faults of people, you will corrupt them or nearly corrupt them."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4888
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Barzah Al-Aslami RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O you who declare faith with their tongues but faith (Imaan) has not entered their hearts! Do not backbite the Muslims nor seek their faults. Whoever seeks their faults (searches for their mistakes or flaws through mischievous ways like spying), Allah will seek his faults. And if Allah seeks his faults, He will expose him even in the privacy of his own house."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4880
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Zayd Ibn Wahb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A man was brought to Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu, and it was said, “This man was found with wine dripping from his beard!” Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, “Verily, we have been prohibited from spying, but if he (himself) shows it to us publicly we will seize him.”
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4890
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
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