💌 If I caught my husband talking to female monkeys
Or lionesses at a zoo, or female donkeys,
Would it be right if he's accused of disloyalty?
No. He's not "cheating" if there's no real intimacy,
No flirtatious texting, and no dates in secrecy.
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If on his friends list online he has female colleagues,
Female clients, female students, those who formerly
Went to school/college with him, and girls who eagerly
Send random friend requests just for popularity,
Deal with this circumstance with logic and empathy.
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If you were to command him to avoid faithfully
Each and every female whom he encounters or sees,
You might as well tell him to ensure that meat he eats
Is from female organisms, and those whom he speaks
To are all actual males, free from femininity.
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What can be counted as cheating or adultery?
If your spouse chats with non-mahram females frequently
About things unnecessary while he purposely
Neglects you, and he makes use of them to sexually
Feel satisfied with no plan or intent to marry.
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If one day though you find out he wants to remarry,
Keep calm, don't accuse him of cheating immediately.
Remind him of his duties, responsibilities,
And the need to be fair and wise in polygyny.
Pass love-related tests with wisdom and piety.
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📖 Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318
Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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