Saturday, November 6, 2021

Poem: Advice For Muslim Wives To Not Regret Their Marriage

πŸ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
πŸ’Œ Some tips for wise Muslim wives to never feel regret, 
To stay content with the romance Allah directed, 
And upon noticing other blissful marriages 
They're incapable of greeting envy or unrest,
As they accept Allah's choice and pray the love stays blessed: 
~•~
Pray Salat Al-Istikhaara before you say yes. 
Seek Allah's guidance first prior to getting married. 
After carefully analyzing the benefits, 
Ensure that you're marrying for the correct purpose - 
To please Allah and serve Him with a friend who's trusted.
~•~
Occasionally remind yourself to not forget 
The splendid and romantic things which your hubby did. 
Bravely don't let pride stop you from wanting to forgive 
Your other half who's like you - human and imperfect. 
Protect your marriage for Allah, and you won't regret.
~•~ 
Admit that your spouse is from Allah a complex gift 
That comes with countless tests, purposes, advantages, 
Blessings in disguise, and merits to check your wit, grit, 
And application of knowledge that you've collected - 
The perfect gift meant to help you thrive and find success.
~•~
Firmly believe that marrying doesn't equate with 
Ceaseless happiness or life free from stress and defects. 
Respect your husband for Allah, and you won't regret 
Your decision to flourish in a marriage that's blessed. 
Dismiss shaytan's pleas to break what Allah connected.
~•~
πŸ“– Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
πŸ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
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