Poem: Avoid Unfairly Suspecting That Your Husband Is "Cheating" On You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 If I caught my husband talking to female monkeys 

Or lionesses at a zoo, or female donkeys, 

Would it be right if he's accused of disloyalty? 

No. He's not "cheating" if there's no real intimacy, 

No flirtatious texting, and no dates in secrecy. 

~•~

If on his friends list online he has female colleagues, 

Female clients, female students, those who formerly 

Went to school/college with him, and girls who eagerly 

Send random friend requests just for popularity, 

Deal with this circumstance with logic and empathy. 

~•~

If you were to command him to avoid faithfully 

Each and every female whom he encounters or sees, 

You might as well tell him to ensure that meat he eats 

Is from female organisms, and those whom he speaks 

To are all actual males, free from femininity.

~•~

What can be counted as cheating or adultery? 

If your spouse chats with non-mahram females frequently 

About things unnecessary while he purposely 

Neglects you, and he makes use of them to sexually 

Feel satisfied with no plan or intent to marry. 

~•~

If one day though you find out he wants to remarry, 

Keep calm, don't accuse him of cheating immediately. 

Remind him of his duties, responsibilities, 

And the need to be fair and wise in polygyny. 

Pass love-related tests with wisdom and piety. 

~•~

📖 Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318

Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: Don't Be Surprised If Most Of The People Whom You Meet Can't Be Trusted

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Since most souls care more about themselves and interests, 

And almost every person we meet can be selfish, 

Don't be surprised when you learn someone can't be trusted, 

When somebody from your fam or friends disappointed 

You as they weren't strong enough to be unselfish. 

~•~

Your mindset when another human makes a promise: 

"While I'm aware that Allah sees their hearts, I admit 

They have the tendency to feel jealous or forget. 

Though I can't predict the future, I hope for what's best, 

And if they disappoint, I choose to not stay upset.

~•~ 

In fact I'd think it's funny if my guess was correct, 

That people can't always fulfill all their promises, 

As their supplies are limited, while some get tempted 

To cancel a plan, forgo certain tasks, or distress

You when there's crisis or some of their needs aren't met."

~•~

Visualize the untrustworthy with spying gadgets, 

Commanded by pranksters to test your Sabr's limit, 

Like you're in a show and the actors' goals are obvious. 

Avoid reacting in a way they'd wish and expect. 

Look unsurprised, unfazed, or unaffected instead. 

~•~

Those who messed with your feelings or lied to you dismiss. 

Next time never tell them about your thoughts or secrets. 

View chronic liars as strangers who can't be trusted. 

Contentedly trust Only Allah Who created 

All souls including troublemakers you meet as tests.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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