Note: How Most INTJ Personality Types Deal With Those Whom They Dislike

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Question: How does a person with the INTJ personality type deal with people whom they dislike? 

Answer: Like they don't exist - in their circle. Since the INTJ believes, after discovery or having their intuition (from Allah the Almighty) on point, that certain individuals are untrustworthy or incompatible, the INTJ doesn't want anything to do with them. 

1] Instead of blocking toxic users on social media, most INTJs have the ability to avoid checking out their pages. If they noticed some of their comments on a mutual friend's post, they don't bother thoroughly reading any of what they posted. 

2] You know that an INTJ regards you as a trusted friend if they go out of their way to closely pay attention to what you say online and offline. When around individuals whom they despise, INTJs can be scarily aloof, indifferent, and unwilling to give proper eye contact. Seeing how they're uninterested in being more acquainted with them, an INTJ who typically enjoys researching would stubbornly refrain from asking inquisitive questions. 

3] Unlike many SF types (particularly a number of ESFJs and ISFPs) who tend to complain and gossip about people whom they hate, INTJ Muslims prefer to avoid mentioning the names of anybody whom they abhor for Allah's sake. Whether you've done some things to disappoint them or you did something remarkable on one occasion, an INTJ who finds you uninteresting or unworthy of befriending would shun any opportunity to enunciate your name. 

INTJs in general confidently ignore their haters, stay away from conflict, and willfully distance themselves from anyone whose vibes they can sense aren't good for them. Prolonging aimless arguments, constantly trying to prove they can win every single debate, cowardly gossiping about those whom they clash with, and continually stalking strangers whose goals differ from theirs are some insecure acts which don't appeal to nor suit most INTJs.

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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. 

By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut 

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Poem: Five Signs That You Are Very Much In Love With Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five clear-cut signs that you're still in love with your husband, 

If you're a Muslim wife who deals with her man's distance 

As your spouse works someplace else to earn halal income, 

Or he studies overseas, or more than one woman 

Are lawfully his wives hence you can't see him often:

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First sign - since you love him for Allah, you're not lying 

About the fact you're fiercely loyal to your husband. 

While other guys are richer than him, yours stays handsome, 

Huggable to you and worthy of your affection. 

He's a recipient of your loving supplications. 

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Secondly, coping with his absence isn't tiring. 

He may be gone for weeks or months, and you'd still love him. 

Through practicing patience while waiting for his return, 

You're trained to be more patient with what Allah destines. 

Have Sabr for Allah so rewards from Him are earned. 

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Thirdly, nearly every moment you're doing something, 

Whether you're washing clothes, browsing online or cooking, 

You find yourself missing your husband's calming presence, 

Recalling his soothing hugs and gifts he had given, 

And your choice to stay married becomes further strengthened. 

~•~ 

Fourthly, even if some relatives or concerned friends 

Tried to convince you to request for separation, 

You'd stubbornly refuse to welcome their suggestions. 

Even if you were bribed to marry another man, 

You'd act like lawyers defending innocent clients.

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Fifthly, you know your love is real and you're not acting 

When his image appears in dreams and contemplations 

A lot, and that proves you clearly have feelings for him. 

Though your love language has no connection with presents 

Or touch, you love him a lot, and you're not pretending. 

~•~ 

Just as good farmers can wait for seeds to start growing 

And some birds can fly for days during bird migration, 

Persevere for Allah. Stay in love with your husband 

And look forward to a grand delightful reunion 

In Jannah Paradise where bliss is everlasting.

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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyadh As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286 

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